At least you're trying. What were her terms for communication? However unpleasant it is, I would still take every opportunity to see your son if you can - you have your hearing coming up at some point as well. And yes she will say she offered you time and you didn't take it. Nightmare but you are dealing with it one step at a
Ahhhh man fair enough. I understand why people really hate the system now. It’s just made to shame fathers, her terms are “For now respectfully she wants to work on building that trust back again with our son, saying that I haven’t seen him for a while so I can’t just come and take him straight away” even though I didn’t go anymore because she stopped me from bringing him to my house. This is manipulation, she calls it working together but it’s really just do what I say so you can see your son, and if you don’t that means you don’t want to see your son. There’s also this notion that l need to learn her way of making his food which I don’t mind. My terms was I’ll come learn to make his food and other things “ I’ve missed” and then after that I don’t need to spend time there anymore.At least you're trying. What were her terms for communication? However unpleasant it is, I would still take every opportunity to see your son if you can - you have your hearing coming up at some point as well. And yes she will say she offered you time and you didn't take it. Nightmare but you are dealing with it one step at a time.