I think it says the lady from the church is doing the handovers, but it doesn't have to be. The only reason he did it is the lady wasn't available that day. You are right she absolutely should be. It's ridiculous she's not doing the handovers herself, she's no victim of anything, I wonder if she can't look me in the eyes after what she's done? Don't know, don't care. My focus is my little one.Sorry, you may have explained this already but does the court order state who must be there at handovers?
If your ex is that bothered, then she should be at every single handover, not her dad or anyone else.
The court order is for the kids between the parents. Not other family members.
I think there's a few people on here who have had agro from grandparents getting involved. It's a case of some people not growing older and wiser. More growing older and more immature.