My daughter and I saw each other on Wednesday for a couple of hours in the morning, it's unsupervised so we went on a good adventure outdoors, home for a snack and some painting, reading, then out again and softplay. The handover is at softplay so we went early and had an amazing time. She wouldn't let me go at the end, got very upset when the lady tried to get her to follow and go to mummy, which ex saw from a distance.
The lady was great, she understood. I said the most important thing is that our daughter is happy, and she agreed and said if I was to just leave it's trauma, and it shouldn't be like that. She basically said if it takes longer then it does because the most important thing is her happiness. And she said she's a witness to all of it, which is great. So I got at least another 20 minutes. We carried on playing, she clung to me every time she thought she was being taken away. Eventually she was able to be distracted with a puzzle and I kissed her and went. It was the best interim time ever.
So the next hearing is on Tuesday, the judge will look at both our statements, ex's allegations and my replies to it, plus some evidence attached too, to contradict what she's saying.
I'll be pushing for more interim time, a whole day or two a week because as amazing as the interim time has been for my daughter and I it isn't long enough obviously.
The lady was great, she understood. I said the most important thing is that our daughter is happy, and she agreed and said if I was to just leave it's trauma, and it shouldn't be like that. She basically said if it takes longer then it does because the most important thing is her happiness. And she said she's a witness to all of it, which is great. So I got at least another 20 minutes. We carried on playing, she clung to me every time she thought she was being taken away. Eventually she was able to be distracted with a puzzle and I kissed her and went. It was the best interim time ever.
So the next hearing is on Tuesday, the judge will look at both our statements, ex's allegations and my replies to it, plus some evidence attached too, to contradict what she's saying.
I'll be pushing for more interim time, a whole day or two a week because as amazing as the interim time has been for my daughter and I it isn't long enough obviously.