He has always communicated with her, she won’t let him have her number but then asks to call him and withholds the number. He’s never said no to her calling and she emails to and he’s never said no to that either. She just has an issue saying she wants no communication but then contacts him anyway.
Anyway it’s all over until the judgement comes through. Apparently she went to him with Cafcass again to ask if he would accept shared residence of just the one child and the other child can decide if they want to go for contact but can’t be made to go if the child doesn’t want to, obviously he turned this straight down and she turned to Cafcass saying that this was what she had to deal with and he’s never willing to co-operate.
So the judge spoke to Cafcass with regards to dads concerns that they have been pretty much useless (obviously he didn’t put it across that way). Cafcass stuck to their guns and said she was sticking by her reports, but the judge did ask if she thought shared care could work and the Cafcass officer reluctantly said yes. Dad had spoken to Cafcass alone to explain what he was asking for but she just didn’t accept it and told the court she didn’t think his proposal of extra days would work.
Basically he gets Fri to Mon every other week and he’s asking for thurs to Tues with contact increasing by a day each month to reach this so there’s a stepped approach for the kids.
Cafcass didn’t even bother to explain his proposal properly to the judge, just said that dad wanted an extra 2 days. Luckily he had the draft order so he asked to give the judge a copy so she could see what his intentions were. Cafcass officer was not bothered about the breaches mum had admitted to. Seems funny that Cafcass recommend equal share of school holidays but then say extra time in the week wouldn’t work
So now the judge will do a written judgement which will take 1-2 weeks. McKenzie friend is optimistic that the judge seems to be considering shared care. The school holidays have been near enough agreed, so it’s basically a case of deciding if it’s shared care, if he gets the extra days and if the order will be enforced and a sanction given. With the last point I don’t see how they can’t enforce it seeing how many breaches mum admitted to.
Anyway it’s all over until the judgement comes through. Apparently she went to him with Cafcass again to ask if he would accept shared residence of just the one child and the other child can decide if they want to go for contact but can’t be made to go if the child doesn’t want to, obviously he turned this straight down and she turned to Cafcass saying that this was what she had to deal with and he’s never willing to co-operate.
So the judge spoke to Cafcass with regards to dads concerns that they have been pretty much useless (obviously he didn’t put it across that way). Cafcass stuck to their guns and said she was sticking by her reports, but the judge did ask if she thought shared care could work and the Cafcass officer reluctantly said yes. Dad had spoken to Cafcass alone to explain what he was asking for but she just didn’t accept it and told the court she didn’t think his proposal of extra days would work.
Basically he gets Fri to Mon every other week and he’s asking for thurs to Tues with contact increasing by a day each month to reach this so there’s a stepped approach for the kids.
Cafcass didn’t even bother to explain his proposal properly to the judge, just said that dad wanted an extra 2 days. Luckily he had the draft order so he asked to give the judge a copy so she could see what his intentions were. Cafcass officer was not bothered about the breaches mum had admitted to. Seems funny that Cafcass recommend equal share of school holidays but then say extra time in the week wouldn’t work
So now the judge will do a written judgement which will take 1-2 weeks. McKenzie friend is optimistic that the judge seems to be considering shared care. The school holidays have been near enough agreed, so it’s basically a case of deciding if it’s shared care, if he gets the extra days and if the order will be enforced and a sanction given. With the last point I don’t see how they can’t enforce it seeing how many breaches mum admitted to.
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