My ex had a meeting with an alcohol help group on Friday and shes phoned me drunk after telling me our baby is not mine and I need to get a dna test.
After some talking with her while drunk (she gives away alot drunk) I figured out that shes basically played down her drinking to the alcohol councillors. Did a breath test, passed it and claimed she didn't have a problem and just drank a few cans a day. Now every two weeks she will go there and do another breath test and talk to them again about how shes not drinking. Its easy enough for her to just not drink that day before the breath test. She can go a morning without a drink if she has to.
Anyway the councillors told her something which I think is pretty shady to be honest. They told her that she should make me take a DNA test, claiming that she slept with someone else. Even though I know the baby is mine. He is the spitting image of me, she says it, the midwifes said it, health visitor said it, social worker, friend, family all said it. Also I was working from home at the time of conception and with her every day, so unless a long lost twin brother who I didnt know about sneaked in and had sex with her while I slept, our baby is definitely mine 100%.
Anyway so now shes drunk texting telling me hes not mine and she says she contacted the police and they will take the baby until I can proove hes mine (my names on the birth certificate). Surely this is not possible. I really dont believe it is.
There is a court order in place saying the baby should stay with me and not go back to her. Surely this information from the alcohol councillors is total rubbish? Is there anyway she could force me to pay for a dna test? I will if I have to and know I will pass but seems a waste of time.
Also I have to take him to her sisters tomorrow for two hours supervised contact. I think she might possibly follow this advice and try to call the police to keep him when I go to pick him up. Is there anything I should do before hand such as inform the police, courts, social worker etc?
After some talking with her while drunk (she gives away alot drunk) I figured out that shes basically played down her drinking to the alcohol councillors. Did a breath test, passed it and claimed she didn't have a problem and just drank a few cans a day. Now every two weeks she will go there and do another breath test and talk to them again about how shes not drinking. Its easy enough for her to just not drink that day before the breath test. She can go a morning without a drink if she has to.
Anyway the councillors told her something which I think is pretty shady to be honest. They told her that she should make me take a DNA test, claiming that she slept with someone else. Even though I know the baby is mine. He is the spitting image of me, she says it, the midwifes said it, health visitor said it, social worker, friend, family all said it. Also I was working from home at the time of conception and with her every day, so unless a long lost twin brother who I didnt know about sneaked in and had sex with her while I slept, our baby is definitely mine 100%.
Anyway so now shes drunk texting telling me hes not mine and she says she contacted the police and they will take the baby until I can proove hes mine (my names on the birth certificate). Surely this is not possible. I really dont believe it is.
There is a court order in place saying the baby should stay with me and not go back to her. Surely this information from the alcohol councillors is total rubbish? Is there anyway she could force me to pay for a dna test? I will if I have to and know I will pass but seems a waste of time.
Also I have to take him to her sisters tomorrow for two hours supervised contact. I think she might possibly follow this advice and try to call the police to keep him when I go to pick him up. Is there anything I should do before hand such as inform the police, courts, social worker etc?