Replied with something similar to your suggested biff response.
This was her reply,
I refuse to make any agreements on arrangements for the girls without them feeling happy with the arrangements.
As it stands they still want to do fri-sun with you, Monday Tuesday with me then wed Thurs with you.
Friday - Wednesday with me Wednesday night with you Thursday night with me then back to your weekend. I will be flexible on times that's fine.
I'm not agreeing to them being away for a full week after Christmas as the girls have said they don't want to be with you for that full week. I think it's in the girls best interest that that week be split up as this is what they've expressed they wish to happen.
26/27 dad
28/29 mum
30/31 dad
As I said before this will be the plan going forward, I won't be discussing this any more unless the girls again being this up in conversation and want to change the arrangements.
Thanks
This was her reply,
I refuse to make any agreements on arrangements for the girls without them feeling happy with the arrangements.
As it stands they still want to do fri-sun with you, Monday Tuesday with me then wed Thurs with you.
Friday - Wednesday with me Wednesday night with you Thursday night with me then back to your weekend. I will be flexible on times that's fine.
I'm not agreeing to them being away for a full week after Christmas as the girls have said they don't want to be with you for that full week. I think it's in the girls best interest that that week be split up as this is what they've expressed they wish to happen.
26/27 dad
28/29 mum
30/31 dad
As I said before this will be the plan going forward, I won't be discussing this any more unless the girls again being this up in conversation and want to change the arrangements.
Thanks