Whilst away this weekend I received an email from the courts. Last week I had the CAFCASS safeguarding report.
The court have summoned me to appear in 2 weeks time, to discuss interim access arrangements and have also set a date for the FHDRA in July, in both cases they want me there an hour early for prehearing discussions. The ex wants the interim arrangements to be at a contact centre, but rather than rubber stamp this, it appears the court wants to hold a hearing to discuss. They also want me to write to the court, outlining my thoughts on child access arrangements going forwards for the FHDRA in July. They also want me to ask my GP to disclose any consultations regarding alcohol use and "any other safeguarding issues", this would be a very short letter from my GP stating there is none. Seems a strange request, I was expecting an alcohol test, I imagine that is coming, but why the letter?
Most interesting, despite me not mentioning it all, they mention "parental alienation" using that exact terminology, its seems that CAFCASS have picked up on it , that the ex is clearing doing it.
The ex wants contact centre, she did this with the other dads, and simply didn't turn up , with the usual lame excuses. So I'm keen to get this knocked on the head.
The court also wants to bring the NMO into the proceedings, and acknowledges that cross undertaking were made.
So, overall, it seems that I might just be making progress.
question - The ex, and her solicitor have breached the cross undertaking , I'm considering asking the court to hold there legal council in contempt, as they have clearly breaching the undertaking that they made to the court at the NMO.
Another curious part of the letter - " .. the ex.. alleges domestic abuse but this is not thought to be determinative ...." not heard this phrase before, but I think they mean that it is not relevant to the CAO/PRO I seek and therefore they will ignore ?
The court have summoned me to appear in 2 weeks time, to discuss interim access arrangements and have also set a date for the FHDRA in July, in both cases they want me there an hour early for prehearing discussions. The ex wants the interim arrangements to be at a contact centre, but rather than rubber stamp this, it appears the court wants to hold a hearing to discuss. They also want me to write to the court, outlining my thoughts on child access arrangements going forwards for the FHDRA in July. They also want me to ask my GP to disclose any consultations regarding alcohol use and "any other safeguarding issues", this would be a very short letter from my GP stating there is none. Seems a strange request, I was expecting an alcohol test, I imagine that is coming, but why the letter?
Most interesting, despite me not mentioning it all, they mention "parental alienation" using that exact terminology, its seems that CAFCASS have picked up on it , that the ex is clearing doing it.
The ex wants contact centre, she did this with the other dads, and simply didn't turn up , with the usual lame excuses. So I'm keen to get this knocked on the head.
The court also wants to bring the NMO into the proceedings, and acknowledges that cross undertaking were made.
So, overall, it seems that I might just be making progress.
question - The ex, and her solicitor have breached the cross undertaking , I'm considering asking the court to hold there legal council in contempt, as they have clearly breaching the undertaking that they made to the court at the NMO.
Another curious part of the letter - " .. the ex.. alleges domestic abuse but this is not thought to be determinative ...." not heard this phrase before, but I think they mean that it is not relevant to the CAO/PRO I seek and therefore they will ignore ?