Dealing with betrayal

[Peanut 21]

Rather it means we are the parent who understands and respects the children's long term development needs and have the strength and patience to get them to a better life.

And trying to keep them out of the adult matters.
Karen Woodall had a particular blog about how the agro parent makes the child feel important by telling them about their feelings of the other parent. But a decent parent keeps them out of it.

As for the people who betray you, it's on them if they're not willing to keep open minded.