I mean theoretically she can't stop me from seeing my daughter as its ordered that i see her weekly although she seems to think that legally she doesn't have to let me see her and then with the apparent lack of enforcement on the mothers side it seems the court wouldn't actually do anything if she did.At least she is letting you see your daughter but things need to move on. She may guess you’ll apply to court if mediation fails so it can be an idea to have an application prepared ready to go in case mediation halts. A well worded application can avoid any hostility.
Are you saying to complete the court form for a variation now and wait to see how mediation goes so it's ready?