Hi All,
Someone recently recommended this site and I'm so glad they did. I've been reading around all weekend and wish you all well, I've already found great advice.
In brief, my wife recently requested separation. 2 days later she asked me to leave (to sleep on a friend's sofa). I'm still in the home. She had an affair a couple of years ago and didn't really attempt reconciliation. I discovered that she has been lying to some friends (and maybe some family members) about being in a coercive relationship (patently false). We went for a mediation session -- in which she lied (we were supposed to be discussing child arrangements but she insisted on talking finances) -- and she has since had her solicitor state she can no-longer go to mediation.
I'm not sure if my wife wants to start court proceedings (I expect I will soon know via my solicitor) or, perhaps, wants to attempt to negotiate via solicitors. Regardless, as soon as she learns I want to see my children an equal amount, I expect court will be inevitable. The court costs alone seem daunting and potentially life-changing but money is secondary to the children of course. That being said, I'm also contacting Fathers for Justice and The McKenzie Friends for advice.
Basically, I feel on the back foot and would welcome any advice I can get. I hope the above was/is coherent, I'm not really sleeping...
Thank you
Someone recently recommended this site and I'm so glad they did. I've been reading around all weekend and wish you all well, I've already found great advice.
In brief, my wife recently requested separation. 2 days later she asked me to leave (to sleep on a friend's sofa). I'm still in the home. She had an affair a couple of years ago and didn't really attempt reconciliation. I discovered that she has been lying to some friends (and maybe some family members) about being in a coercive relationship (patently false). We went for a mediation session -- in which she lied (we were supposed to be discussing child arrangements but she insisted on talking finances) -- and she has since had her solicitor state she can no-longer go to mediation.
I'm not sure if my wife wants to start court proceedings (I expect I will soon know via my solicitor) or, perhaps, wants to attempt to negotiate via solicitors. Regardless, as soon as she learns I want to see my children an equal amount, I expect court will be inevitable. The court costs alone seem daunting and potentially life-changing but money is secondary to the children of course. That being said, I'm also contacting Fathers for Justice and The McKenzie Friends for advice.
Basically, I feel on the back foot and would welcome any advice I can get. I hope the above was/is coherent, I'm not really sleeping...
Thank you
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