Hi,
I'm new. So sorry if I have put this the wrong group.
So I separated from my wife 6 months ago we have a 1 yr old.
We have had a section 7 report and everything for both of us was good no concerns.
So just had a court case as I'm asking for 50/50 but mother wants full custody with me just seeing them one weekend a fortnight.
So I see my child every other day for a few hours , I have court in couple of weeks as I put in a c100 and I have applied for full custody reasons.
Start of this yr my ex her mother and father attacked my mum,brother and myself.
The CPS have pressed charges of Abh and they have said not guilty and now waiting on a trial date.
My ex got removed from her family home by social services when she was young as the father was violet to her and her siblings what she also reported it her self, so I'm worried for my child's safety as I feel history is repeating itself.
My ex will not let me see my child unless im supervised ,the ex was hoping it was her that would do it but my mum is and that spoiler her plan. There is no court order for me to be supervised but ex said she would not hand our child over to me if I ain't supervised, her reasons to social worker was I'm mentally unstable, suicidal, drink and ride my bike, and homeless , but non of that is true at all no evidence nothing and the social worker has agreed with her. I know I don't have to be supervised as it's not in the interim order but she will stop me seeing my child.
I have also applied for a non-molestation order as I have also been jumped by a male saying it was a message from my ex to leave. The male was in the right place ,time and day that I drop my child back to the mother at the meeting point. Just all a bit suspicious and with him saying message off my ex.
Police was involved but can't find any evidence or CCTV at the moment but they are still looking the said.
She down talks to me when I'm have my child,tells me I have to send photos every hour and what he eats,when he sleeps and what we get up to and if I don't she will have a go at me.
The judge put the non molestation order on hold till he knew the outcome of the court and bail conditions.
She pleaded not guilty and bail conditions are she ain't aloud direct or non direct contact with my mum or brother, there was nothing about me , no idea why I have been trying to phone and find out.
So my question is what will happen with the mother facing Abh charges and my son in her custody?
Do I have a chance of getting my child in my custody with the charge over her and her family?
There is another section 7 being done as the court ordered it and has to be done by November as court in December for that.
But I put a c2 form in and have court in November asking for full custody with the Abh charge hanging over the mother.
Sorry for the long message just feel like everything is against the fathers and its not right.
If it was me with the Abh charge I wouldn't be aloud to see my child and I bet it would have to be supervised.
I have pictures of the clothes my child wears to come to me they are far to small for him months to small, he always covered in bruises on the face,legs,spine. She always says it was the cousin who is few months older than my child threw something and hit my child ect.
I know children get marks but not everyday .
My ex co sleeps and also with her sister and her child , when she stays at her mother's my child in in the cot with her little brother who is about 2.
She has her own place but hardly every there my child has no routine at all and looks under weigh, she goes out in afternoon drinking cocktails with my child there , not all the time but some weekends.
Im not stopping her going out but not with my child and not in the afternoon.
When I told social services they just said I was just stirring things up.
So I'm lost and worried and a broken father just trying to protect his child and feels like the system is against me .
I'm new. So sorry if I have put this the wrong group.
So I separated from my wife 6 months ago we have a 1 yr old.
We have had a section 7 report and everything for both of us was good no concerns.
So just had a court case as I'm asking for 50/50 but mother wants full custody with me just seeing them one weekend a fortnight.
So I see my child every other day for a few hours , I have court in couple of weeks as I put in a c100 and I have applied for full custody reasons.
Start of this yr my ex her mother and father attacked my mum,brother and myself.
The CPS have pressed charges of Abh and they have said not guilty and now waiting on a trial date.
My ex got removed from her family home by social services when she was young as the father was violet to her and her siblings what she also reported it her self, so I'm worried for my child's safety as I feel history is repeating itself.
My ex will not let me see my child unless im supervised ,the ex was hoping it was her that would do it but my mum is and that spoiler her plan. There is no court order for me to be supervised but ex said she would not hand our child over to me if I ain't supervised, her reasons to social worker was I'm mentally unstable, suicidal, drink and ride my bike, and homeless , but non of that is true at all no evidence nothing and the social worker has agreed with her. I know I don't have to be supervised as it's not in the interim order but she will stop me seeing my child.
I have also applied for a non-molestation order as I have also been jumped by a male saying it was a message from my ex to leave. The male was in the right place ,time and day that I drop my child back to the mother at the meeting point. Just all a bit suspicious and with him saying message off my ex.
Police was involved but can't find any evidence or CCTV at the moment but they are still looking the said.
She down talks to me when I'm have my child,tells me I have to send photos every hour and what he eats,when he sleeps and what we get up to and if I don't she will have a go at me.
The judge put the non molestation order on hold till he knew the outcome of the court and bail conditions.
She pleaded not guilty and bail conditions are she ain't aloud direct or non direct contact with my mum or brother, there was nothing about me , no idea why I have been trying to phone and find out.
So my question is what will happen with the mother facing Abh charges and my son in her custody?
Do I have a chance of getting my child in my custody with the charge over her and her family?
There is another section 7 being done as the court ordered it and has to be done by November as court in December for that.
But I put a c2 form in and have court in November asking for full custody with the Abh charge hanging over the mother.
Sorry for the long message just feel like everything is against the fathers and its not right.
If it was me with the Abh charge I wouldn't be aloud to see my child and I bet it would have to be supervised.
I have pictures of the clothes my child wears to come to me they are far to small for him months to small, he always covered in bruises on the face,legs,spine. She always says it was the cousin who is few months older than my child threw something and hit my child ect.
I know children get marks but not everyday .
My ex co sleeps and also with her sister and her child , when she stays at her mother's my child in in the cot with her little brother who is about 2.
She has her own place but hardly every there my child has no routine at all and looks under weigh, she goes out in afternoon drinking cocktails with my child there , not all the time but some weekends.
Im not stopping her going out but not with my child and not in the afternoon.
When I told social services they just said I was just stirring things up.
So I'm lost and worried and a broken father just trying to protect his child and feels like the system is against me .