I’m undergoing multiple court hearings with my ex related to contact, non-mol, child arrangements incl. species issues / holiday and TOLATA (assets).
She continues to be abusive and swears and threatens me and the children regularly despite undertakings and court orders not to do so.
My ex has just thrown an extraordinary curve ball and said she had an affair and that our son is not mine!
This is despite us planning the pregnancy (we recall when we conceived and we did so on our first attempt).
I asked why she out my name on the birth certificate, and she said for the money.
Any advice on how to deal with this?
1. How do I go about getting paternity tests without any risk of manipulation?
2. Do I include this in existing proceedings - do I need a new application to order paternity tests if she refuses?
3. Any idea of costs if this process?
So so so sad - just so many issues.
My little 5 year old and I have such a good relationship… I’ll be gutted if it’s true.
She continues to be abusive and swears and threatens me and the children regularly despite undertakings and court orders not to do so.
My ex has just thrown an extraordinary curve ball and said she had an affair and that our son is not mine!
This is despite us planning the pregnancy (we recall when we conceived and we did so on our first attempt).
I asked why she out my name on the birth certificate, and she said for the money.
Any advice on how to deal with this?
1. How do I go about getting paternity tests without any risk of manipulation?
2. Do I include this in existing proceedings - do I need a new application to order paternity tests if she refuses?
3. Any idea of costs if this process?
So so so sad - just so many issues.
My little 5 year old and I have such a good relationship… I’ll be gutted if it’s true.