Hi Fellas,
So had my FHDRA on the 23rd Jan, ex had requested that there be screens in place so we couldnt even see each other (a bit pathetic)
She had also tried to change the hearing date beforehand under the excuse of 'had not had time' to arrange her FREE legal aid solicitor, turned up late and without a position statement.
The judge obviously denied the adjournment and the case went ahead.
Because of all of the allegations she has made they said they could not support any interim contact act all (I suggested contact centre but judge did not want to do this as he said that they are not nice places) so everything is on hold pending a section 7 report by childrens services.
I did send over my position statement to her mother on the morning of the hearing and she responded straight away with her email, - I assume they were crapping themselves thinking I had one up on them.
Since the court hearing her mother will not respond to any messages or emails or any form of contact of me politley asking where how my son is and asking for any pictures. I am finding this incredibly frustrating that anyone can be so thick and obstructive. Have had nothing at all in terms of photos or how he is since Sept 11th
So again no contact at all until s7 report has taken place and absolutley no contact from her and her family despite me paying £144PW in maintenance.
She is now fully playing the terrified victim card and probably deserves an oscar for this acting performance.
Anyone got any tips on how to cope mentally with this as their behaviours are incredibly annoying and I feel like now they are just doing everything that they can to make me suffer, as I doubt in the long run they will not be able to cut me out of my sons life like they seem to so desperately want.
Any tips on what I need to do to prepare myself for the section 7 report/what is involved etc?
Thanks
So had my FHDRA on the 23rd Jan, ex had requested that there be screens in place so we couldnt even see each other (a bit pathetic)
She had also tried to change the hearing date beforehand under the excuse of 'had not had time' to arrange her FREE legal aid solicitor, turned up late and without a position statement.
The judge obviously denied the adjournment and the case went ahead.
Because of all of the allegations she has made they said they could not support any interim contact act all (I suggested contact centre but judge did not want to do this as he said that they are not nice places) so everything is on hold pending a section 7 report by childrens services.
I did send over my position statement to her mother on the morning of the hearing and she responded straight away with her email, - I assume they were crapping themselves thinking I had one up on them.
Since the court hearing her mother will not respond to any messages or emails or any form of contact of me politley asking where how my son is and asking for any pictures. I am finding this incredibly frustrating that anyone can be so thick and obstructive. Have had nothing at all in terms of photos or how he is since Sept 11th
So again no contact at all until s7 report has taken place and absolutley no contact from her and her family despite me paying £144PW in maintenance.
She is now fully playing the terrified victim card and probably deserves an oscar for this acting performance.
Anyone got any tips on how to cope mentally with this as their behaviours are incredibly annoying and I feel like now they are just doing everything that they can to make me suffer, as I doubt in the long run they will not be able to cut me out of my sons life like they seem to so desperately want.
Any tips on what I need to do to prepare myself for the section 7 report/what is involved etc?
Thanks