Hi, I am not a dad but I am a mum of a wonderful son who is an excellent dad despite only being 22.
He was with his now ex for only 6 months before she got pregnant and already had a son of her own. They were together for 3 years and we have only recently found out how bad the relationship was and that she had been severely emotionally, physically, financially abusive and controlling and coercive towards him since he started living with her.
The relationship ended on late last year when she called the police alleging domestic abuse. The police have NFAd him and are still investigating her for abusing him. She has been messaging him daily trying to get him to get back with her and he has thankfully ignored her.
They had mediation today where he has asked for 50/50 shared care and advised that his son has his own bedroom, clothes and toys here. The ex went crazy shouting and accusing him of all sorts and then said mediation won’t work and ended the teams meeting.
We are going to make an application to court for a child arrangements order. I have a law degree and used to work in a family law firm but things have changed in the last 6 years. Can anyone advise if we would be best placed filling in a C1a form advising of the domestic abuse he suffered or not?
He was with his now ex for only 6 months before she got pregnant and already had a son of her own. They were together for 3 years and we have only recently found out how bad the relationship was and that she had been severely emotionally, physically, financially abusive and controlling and coercive towards him since he started living with her.
The relationship ended on late last year when she called the police alleging domestic abuse. The police have NFAd him and are still investigating her for abusing him. She has been messaging him daily trying to get him to get back with her and he has thankfully ignored her.
They had mediation today where he has asked for 50/50 shared care and advised that his son has his own bedroom, clothes and toys here. The ex went crazy shouting and accusing him of all sorts and then said mediation won’t work and ended the teams meeting.
We are going to make an application to court for a child arrangements order. I have a law degree and used to work in a family law firm but things have changed in the last 6 years. Can anyone advise if we would be best placed filling in a C1a form advising of the domestic abuse he suffered or not?
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