Hi I am the father of 3 gorgeous little boys who are aged 8, 5 and 4.
Since December 12 2018 I have had a case in the family court in Scotland.
Over the course of this time all of my children have sustained black eyes, one had his head split open twice, burst open fingers, burnt toes, bite marks, bruised temple, electrocuted and more.
The finals straw was in August of 2021 when my youngest boy told me that his mums partner had asked him to touch his Willie and he will get him crisps on the way to school. I refused to return my boys, my ex used her custodial rights to remove them from school to which the head teacher agreed even this I was showing her the evidence of abuse she just shook her head and said they have to be with their mum.
I presented at court 9 days later where I was specifically told by the sheriff that he will put me in jail if I keep the children again without someone telling me to.
I was given access back to my boys and on the same day that decision was made I picked them up from school. As soon as I seen my children they all told me how theirs mums partner dragged my oldest boy up the stairs with his arm which again caused bruising. I reported this to police and social work but again they said I was making all of these allegations up.
I was told from social workers that I am subjecting my children to too many professionals and that this is not good for them.
The children were then placed on the child protection register as myself being the perpetrator! As this meeting all the members refused to acknowledge that the social work records and reports are extremely omitted and does not even contain the information about my children sucking their own brothers private parts while in their mothers care!
Instead I was degraded and accused of being a liar!
Soo.. after being mentally tortured by services since December 2018 and given that this man can abuse my children with zero accountability I choose to react!
On Monday 10th January 2022 I received a phone call from a Manger within my local council who was extremely rude and had no response to my valid facts. The phone call turned very sour when I said you will all be held accountable, I was told to choose my next words very carefully. I ended the phone call.
On Wednesday 12th I received another call from another Manager within Falkirk Council who apologised for her colleague and asked how I can let social work learn to build my trust again, I accepted and said I am and have been more than willing to work with social services but this is not received in return.
On Thursday 13th I received a phone call from my childrens social worker, they were very careful on what they said and the phone call seemed ok, what I did take away from this call tho was that they pretended to be unaware of a child welfare report being carried out by the court on Friday 14th, she seemed annoyed that they were coming to speak with me first.
On Friday 14 at 8:30 am I dropped my boys off at breakfast club, I was approached by the beasty fucker that has been abusing my children in the school playground, it was in the walkway of the school entrance so no longer than an average sized hallway, I was next to the teacher when he approached me. His nose was literally touching my nose when he asked if I want to kiss him. I ignored his behaviour and turned my head to ask the teacher if she is going to allow this for her to then turn her head away as if to allow it to continue. I refused to engage and remained calm and courteous and proceeded to squeeze by and leave the school playground. As I was leaving he shouted that he will give my kids a kiss goodnight for me.
I got in my car and drove away, in this split second I thought I should go back and report him like I have done before, as I was approaching the school he was walking down the pavement at the side of the road. He gave me the fingers and then proceeded to what I assumed was to step in front of my vehicle so I hit him with it. He went flying over the roof off the car and by the time I was out to get him he got up and run away.
I have not seen my children since!
My children were no where present during this yet 3 little boys who were injured on a weekly basis while in their mothers care has now never seen the only person who was actually trying to help them!!
The story continues from there aswell, not only am I being gaslight by services they are now denying abuse occurred!!
I’ve literally had social work ask me over 8 times if I want supervised contact to which I refused. When I finally did accept they then refused the contact by saying they will let the court decide!
The world is fucked up and this cannot be the normal practice of child protection. I have done nothing to my boys and yet I am being punished for what?
So I’m in court this Friday 27th may, at the last hearing the sheriff made an order for a CPS to make a mental health report on myself, they would like a report from my CPS to check my mental health. The thing here is that I have zero mental health issues and my CPS said she cannot make a report because it’s not her job and that it would be a psychiatric nurse or doctor who would do this. If she were to refer me to them they would not accept the referral based on the FACT that I have no issues to my mental health.
This means that come Friday 27th there is no report which means the sheriff cannot make a decision on whether or not I can have my access back.
In other words… the nurse can break a court order and not comply. My ex can keep our boys away from me which is breaking a court order and it is also contempt of court and the sheriff will do nothing.
If I dare keep my children from abuse they will put me in the jail!!
Seems like something is not right here and my children and myself are the only ones suffering!!
Maybe it’s because my sister was killed by someone in a public media case, they are scared that this will bring them bad press!
All I know is I will never ever give up for those little guys and every professional involved will be held accountable wether that be in the court or by public exposure.
My story is entirely true and I have all the evidence yet the court and social services seem to not want me to have a trial/proof hearing
Stay strong guys because your children need you.
Since December 12 2018 I have had a case in the family court in Scotland.
Over the course of this time all of my children have sustained black eyes, one had his head split open twice, burst open fingers, burnt toes, bite marks, bruised temple, electrocuted and more.
The finals straw was in August of 2021 when my youngest boy told me that his mums partner had asked him to touch his Willie and he will get him crisps on the way to school. I refused to return my boys, my ex used her custodial rights to remove them from school to which the head teacher agreed even this I was showing her the evidence of abuse she just shook her head and said they have to be with their mum.
I presented at court 9 days later where I was specifically told by the sheriff that he will put me in jail if I keep the children again without someone telling me to.
I was given access back to my boys and on the same day that decision was made I picked them up from school. As soon as I seen my children they all told me how theirs mums partner dragged my oldest boy up the stairs with his arm which again caused bruising. I reported this to police and social work but again they said I was making all of these allegations up.
I was told from social workers that I am subjecting my children to too many professionals and that this is not good for them.
The children were then placed on the child protection register as myself being the perpetrator! As this meeting all the members refused to acknowledge that the social work records and reports are extremely omitted and does not even contain the information about my children sucking their own brothers private parts while in their mothers care!
Instead I was degraded and accused of being a liar!
Soo.. after being mentally tortured by services since December 2018 and given that this man can abuse my children with zero accountability I choose to react!
On Monday 10th January 2022 I received a phone call from a Manger within my local council who was extremely rude and had no response to my valid facts. The phone call turned very sour when I said you will all be held accountable, I was told to choose my next words very carefully. I ended the phone call.
On Wednesday 12th I received another call from another Manager within Falkirk Council who apologised for her colleague and asked how I can let social work learn to build my trust again, I accepted and said I am and have been more than willing to work with social services but this is not received in return.
On Thursday 13th I received a phone call from my childrens social worker, they were very careful on what they said and the phone call seemed ok, what I did take away from this call tho was that they pretended to be unaware of a child welfare report being carried out by the court on Friday 14th, she seemed annoyed that they were coming to speak with me first.
On Friday 14 at 8:30 am I dropped my boys off at breakfast club, I was approached by the beasty fucker that has been abusing my children in the school playground, it was in the walkway of the school entrance so no longer than an average sized hallway, I was next to the teacher when he approached me. His nose was literally touching my nose when he asked if I want to kiss him. I ignored his behaviour and turned my head to ask the teacher if she is going to allow this for her to then turn her head away as if to allow it to continue. I refused to engage and remained calm and courteous and proceeded to squeeze by and leave the school playground. As I was leaving he shouted that he will give my kids a kiss goodnight for me.
I got in my car and drove away, in this split second I thought I should go back and report him like I have done before, as I was approaching the school he was walking down the pavement at the side of the road. He gave me the fingers and then proceeded to what I assumed was to step in front of my vehicle so I hit him with it. He went flying over the roof off the car and by the time I was out to get him he got up and run away.
I have not seen my children since!
My children were no where present during this yet 3 little boys who were injured on a weekly basis while in their mothers care has now never seen the only person who was actually trying to help them!!
The story continues from there aswell, not only am I being gaslight by services they are now denying abuse occurred!!
I’ve literally had social work ask me over 8 times if I want supervised contact to which I refused. When I finally did accept they then refused the contact by saying they will let the court decide!
The world is fucked up and this cannot be the normal practice of child protection. I have done nothing to my boys and yet I am being punished for what?
So I’m in court this Friday 27th may, at the last hearing the sheriff made an order for a CPS to make a mental health report on myself, they would like a report from my CPS to check my mental health. The thing here is that I have zero mental health issues and my CPS said she cannot make a report because it’s not her job and that it would be a psychiatric nurse or doctor who would do this. If she were to refer me to them they would not accept the referral based on the FACT that I have no issues to my mental health.
This means that come Friday 27th there is no report which means the sheriff cannot make a decision on whether or not I can have my access back.
In other words… the nurse can break a court order and not comply. My ex can keep our boys away from me which is breaking a court order and it is also contempt of court and the sheriff will do nothing.
If I dare keep my children from abuse they will put me in the jail!!
Seems like something is not right here and my children and myself are the only ones suffering!!
Maybe it’s because my sister was killed by someone in a public media case, they are scared that this will bring them bad press!
All I know is I will never ever give up for those little guys and every professional involved will be held accountable wether that be in the court or by public exposure.
My story is entirely true and I have all the evidence yet the court and social services seem to not want me to have a trial/proof hearing
Stay strong guys because your children need you.
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