"Quantum of contact"???? Does this article reflect the views of cafcass and the family court??
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"Quantum of contact"???? Does this article reflect the views of cafcass and the family court??
Quantum of contact wtf.
"Quantum of contact"???? Does this article reflect the views of cafcass and the family court??
Yes I'm having to work through similar although my litte one is older by a few years. We're having overnight stays now and the past couple of visits homesickness, as the little one calls it, has come from nowhere and I've returned her back to the mothers quite late at night rather than be seen to force the stay. I think there's a large sprinkling of what Karen Woodall calls enmeshment in the mix and I'm processing how to unpick it. 11 months old is a whole different dilemma I would imagine.Separation anxiety appears to be one of my biggest hurdles to overcome at present. For the first 2.5 months of my 11 month old daughters life there was no issue. Now if my daughter is away from my ex for 10 minutes she becomes very distressed to the point I am not seeing her at the family centre and there is talk about video calling, which I am not confident will work.
Part of the Cafcass link above states”A responsible parent allows "proper" contact and negotiates with the absent parent over the frequency and timings, clearly demonstrating that they support the principle that meaningful contact is in the child's best interests“ how can this happen if the mother has stated on her C100 reply she does not want me to have a relationship with my daughter. She will never allow “proper contact” and “negotiate” as she has also said she will not communicate with me?
I am currently waiting for an urgent hearing date but am struggling to see how my daughters separation anxiety can be overcome so I can see her again when the mother will not help and will use anything to her advantage?
Is there any way you can surreptitiously find out if she goes to nursery - maybe a mutual acquaintance you can trust?Ash, I have been asking the questions you have asked in emails to my ex. Unfortunately she has never replied and I do not know if she goes to nursery, back when the we were in court she was breast fed, (she also attended via video link) How can I get meaningful information about my daughter if my ex dies not communicate. I feel she is in control?