On 1st Feb I'm attending my 2nd c100 hearing. The court wanted me and ex to separately attend a SPIP course, I've done mine, she probably hasn't but i will ask on the day.
I haven't seen my boys in nearly 3 years after my ex wife obtained 2 non molestation orders based on complete lies. (Yes that really is true, I won't bore you with the details)
I was asked to send a letter every month to the boys to rebuild a relationship. I have done this for last 9 months.
My ex was supposed to send me monthly updates, I've recieved nothing. I am not applying for a breach as this will just delay things further but I will be telling the court on the day.
This hearing is a video call one, now in response to my latest C100 application my ex states I have been seen in her street numerous times and as I have no reason to be their she is still worried for her safety and installed cctv a few months ago.
I've been no where near her house, she actually lives about 20 miles away, I will be questioning why someone who stated over the last 3 years she was in fear for her safety why has she has only just now got cctv? And just after I make a application to see boys Is a coincidence.
But here is the best bit.
Today I paid a profesional photographer to go to her house, I know she is away visiting family 100 miles away, as she has done it every new year for last 10 years. So I said if their is no car on drive take photos.
I have 30 detailed photos and their is 100% no cctv internally pointing out or externally.. not even a ring door bell!!
This is all completly legal, its a public road and no access was made onto her private property.
I actually knew she wouldn't have cctv anyways.
Should I use it at the hearing? How should I go about it? Submitt? Mention it?
It has taken me 3 years to get physcale evidence and prove my ex wife is a compulsive liar.
I don't want to waste this opportunity
I cannot afford a solicitor and represent myself
I haven't seen my boys in nearly 3 years after my ex wife obtained 2 non molestation orders based on complete lies. (Yes that really is true, I won't bore you with the details)
I was asked to send a letter every month to the boys to rebuild a relationship. I have done this for last 9 months.
My ex was supposed to send me monthly updates, I've recieved nothing. I am not applying for a breach as this will just delay things further but I will be telling the court on the day.
This hearing is a video call one, now in response to my latest C100 application my ex states I have been seen in her street numerous times and as I have no reason to be their she is still worried for her safety and installed cctv a few months ago.
I've been no where near her house, she actually lives about 20 miles away, I will be questioning why someone who stated over the last 3 years she was in fear for her safety why has she has only just now got cctv? And just after I make a application to see boys Is a coincidence.
But here is the best bit.
Today I paid a profesional photographer to go to her house, I know she is away visiting family 100 miles away, as she has done it every new year for last 10 years. So I said if their is no car on drive take photos.
I have 30 detailed photos and their is 100% no cctv internally pointing out or externally.. not even a ring door bell!!
This is all completly legal, its a public road and no access was made onto her private property.
I actually knew she wouldn't have cctv anyways.
Should I use it at the hearing? How should I go about it? Submitt? Mention it?
It has taken me 3 years to get physcale evidence and prove my ex wife is a compulsive liar.
I don't want to waste this opportunity
I cannot afford a solicitor and represent myself
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