What you could do is ask for 50/50 with every other week-end and extra time in the school holidays instead of the extra week-end or midweek nights. That probably wouldn't be ordered unless she agreed to it though - and you're working so probably couldn't manage more than the usual 6.5 weeks each per year.
If you did have an order, school holidays could be defined - with set weeks. So for example an order might say for the Summer holidays:
Weeks 1, 2 and 5 with Mother, weeks 3, 4 and 6 with Father. Any additional days to be divided between the parties.
School summer holiday weeks to commence on the Friday on or after the end of term and end on the day school returns.
What this means is each week includes 7 full days so they go Friday to Friday. The first two weeks would include two week-ends as part of two weeks, then two weeks/week-ends with you, then 1 week/1 week-end with her, then 1 week/1 week-end with you.
There are usually over 6 weeks - sometimes it's nearly 7 weeks, sometimes just the odd extra day and that;s left for you to decide between you., My ex always took the extra days and I let that go - it was the only holiday it wasn't easy to split equally.
So no you don't need to do every week-end in the holidays.
If you did have an order, school holidays could be defined - with set weeks. So for example an order might say for the Summer holidays:
Weeks 1, 2 and 5 with Mother, weeks 3, 4 and 6 with Father. Any additional days to be divided between the parties.
School summer holiday weeks to commence on the Friday on or after the end of term and end on the day school returns.
What this means is each week includes 7 full days so they go Friday to Friday. The first two weeks would include two week-ends as part of two weeks, then two weeks/week-ends with you, then 1 week/1 week-end with her, then 1 week/1 week-end with you.
There are usually over 6 weeks - sometimes it's nearly 7 weeks, sometimes just the odd extra day and that;s left for you to decide between you., My ex always took the extra days and I let that go - it was the only holiday it wasn't easy to split equally.
So no you don't need to do every week-end in the holidays.