@proud_dad, I’m so pleased to hear your relationship with your son has returned to some form of normality and you’re able to share interests with him.
My eldest is 12 this year, he and I have always shared similar interests and enjoyed doing activities together. He’s always been Daddy’s boy and has a lot of love for me.
I have read a lot of what he has allegedly said and it sounds like he feels trapped and confused. In all honesty some of the things he says seem to throw doubts on the other things he has been made to say. He’s a smart kid and knows right from wrong both myself and his mother raised them well. I’m sure he’ll probably figure his own way out of this and do what’s right.
It’s truly sad to have to watch your ex do this to the people you love most. It’s also sad to have to say to someone that you view your ex as a danger to your children, that’s something I believe no father ever wishes to have to say.
All I can do is keep working with the courts SS and the guardian. Keep calm show that I’m a good father despite what’s been said. I always remain child focused, though I’ve raised concerns around PA it’s not done out of malice, I’m simply a father who’s doing all he can to make sure his children are safe and living in an environment that’s conducive to their well-being and of course their future.
It’s nice to read some of the stories of other Dads who have managed to get an order and now have a relationship with their children. Though it’s also sad and distressing to know so many fathers go through what can only be described as a living hell, and all because they just want to continue the relationship with their children that they’ve always had.