Yes let the dust settle. It's an even better result if the case was heard by magistrates. It seems unfair for those who can't afford a barrister, but a barrister can really persuade magistrates particularly, as well as a Judge. They listen to them.
Did you get defined wording for your order? For the holidays and term time schedule? My ex sought ways to disrupt the shared care order (which was defined) - things like booking weekly activities etc. to some degree that's ok - you can just go along with the odd activity on a school night and agree to it. But you always have the option to say - something else happening this week and it's your time so you get to decide.
There is no "start date" to the summer holidays in my order - it got left off. Which caused no end of trouble each year, with ex saying the holiday weeks started on a Friday or a Monday or whatever, so hard to plan in advance. If no start date though, it should default to the last day of term.
I have trouble this year as last day of term is a Wednesday! But don't worry. I'm sure your ex will keep to the order after going through all that court case. Mine did for about 18 months and only kicked off again when son got older. How old are your kids?
Did you get defined wording for your order? For the holidays and term time schedule? My ex sought ways to disrupt the shared care order (which was defined) - things like booking weekly activities etc. to some degree that's ok - you can just go along with the odd activity on a school night and agree to it. But you always have the option to say - something else happening this week and it's your time so you get to decide.
There is no "start date" to the summer holidays in my order - it got left off. Which caused no end of trouble each year, with ex saying the holiday weeks started on a Friday or a Monday or whatever, so hard to plan in advance. If no start date though, it should default to the last day of term.
I have trouble this year as last day of term is a Wednesday! But don't worry. I'm sure your ex will keep to the order after going through all that court case. Mine did for about 18 months and only kicked off again when son got older. How old are your kids?