Sorry for the delay reply @StayStrong.Welcome to this place. Thank you for posting the redacted document. I shivered when I read the Order: may I ask you to elaborate as to how the Order came about? Your experience with the Guardian, and your experience with representation. I'm thinking you were represented?
In general, and to your over arching question, yes, 16 yrs means such shackles of communication are shed regarding contact with your Son. May I kindly ask....would he reject/or expose you with such contact?
My best wishes, SS.
My experience with Guardian wasn't good, he has exclusively supported my ex, and he was known person to my ex's "women social working" person. He is the one who drafted the court order which favored my ex. Judge know the Guardian before as he was in his court few cases time before.
Also, I did have the fact finding, but as I said I should have not gone for the fact finding, as the fact finding was regarding me my ex issues, while the order was regarding Child Arrangement Order. I was trying to prove my ex wrong in fact finding process rather looking for contacts with children
Had I know then I would know that they will judge me through fact finding process, then i would kept calm and concentrate on contact with children.
True that I was not guided properly, in spite of having a solicitor ( which costed me hefty amount around £25k in total) I have such a bad contact order.
I need to accept that I was aggressive in the court, thinking saying upfront and fighting would help.