Hello everyone,
I’ve spent the last few days on this site reading all your posts and trying to sponge up information and was looking for some advice as I am self representing as can’t financially afford a solicitor or barrister.
I have my beautiful daughter who was born in May , I was present throughout pregnancy , labor and lived with my daughter and ex up until we broke up in January. I was allowed to see my daughter but my ex made it very difficult and cut times down to half an hour so I decided to go with mediation to try and rectify and make a plan. Upon receiving her mediation she blocked all contact and haven’t heard a word since.
I have been nearly sick and worrying at work, my ex put me through hell in the relationship, spyed on my phone, disrespecting my family daily and calling them awful names, she would throw stuff at me and hasn’t allowed my family to see my daughter . Only once since she has been born.
She is saying I have been domestically abusive (none whatsoever and no proof or authorities involved) and that I have a drug problem. This is also not true but when she kept spying on my phone found a photo of me from a few years back with a suspicious bag before I went to a festival. She has also sent text messages to herself on my phone and then deleted them. I took my daughter and my ex camping and she was secretly recording me on the way back in the van saying iver and over ‘ I have a new guy and he’s a great step dad to your daughter’ getting a reaction as she is filming me. In hindsight she has set me up over time.
It’s really messed me up and now I’m self repping I need answers to my questions before I go full panic mode. should I file a C1a form? Will cafcass just take her side?
I’ve not had even a single drop of alcohol this year so not worried about a hair test and I have no prior police incidents or anything at all.
Many thanks for any responses and my heart goes out to all the people also suffering in this position.
I’ve spent the last few days on this site reading all your posts and trying to sponge up information and was looking for some advice as I am self representing as can’t financially afford a solicitor or barrister.
I have my beautiful daughter who was born in May , I was present throughout pregnancy , labor and lived with my daughter and ex up until we broke up in January. I was allowed to see my daughter but my ex made it very difficult and cut times down to half an hour so I decided to go with mediation to try and rectify and make a plan. Upon receiving her mediation she blocked all contact and haven’t heard a word since.
I have been nearly sick and worrying at work, my ex put me through hell in the relationship, spyed on my phone, disrespecting my family daily and calling them awful names, she would throw stuff at me and hasn’t allowed my family to see my daughter . Only once since she has been born.
She is saying I have been domestically abusive (none whatsoever and no proof or authorities involved) and that I have a drug problem. This is also not true but when she kept spying on my phone found a photo of me from a few years back with a suspicious bag before I went to a festival. She has also sent text messages to herself on my phone and then deleted them. I took my daughter and my ex camping and she was secretly recording me on the way back in the van saying iver and over ‘ I have a new guy and he’s a great step dad to your daughter’ getting a reaction as she is filming me. In hindsight she has set me up over time.
It’s really messed me up and now I’m self repping I need answers to my questions before I go full panic mode. should I file a C1a form? Will cafcass just take her side?
I’ve not had even a single drop of alcohol this year so not worried about a hair test and I have no prior police incidents or anything at all.
Many thanks for any responses and my heart goes out to all the people also suffering in this position.