Hi Everyone,
You've been a great help - still no update on my previous post about varying the court order in place to get more equal access to my child but it's meant to be up soon so fingers crossed.
My ex is constantly being difficult, she even put in a last minute proposal immediately before the hearing which I haven't yet seen but for the only reason I can think of is to delay a decision being made further - every single time her solicitor sends a proposal it's always less than 24 hours before the hearing is meant to take place, I've told my solicitor I have issues interpreting complex data so this kind of short notice to make a decision doesn't help me - he has said to her solicitor to send things earlier in a polite fashion but is there anything else that can be done? I take it the judge won't really be interested?
Separate to that - I'm still due another week holiday with my child, her mother has had both she's entitled to (and at the time she preferred) but she wont let me take my last week when is best for me in getting time off work etc and now there are only 2 months left of the year and she/her solicitor havent acknowledged my request to take the extra week during the festive period (but I suspect she'll say no).
What are the implications if I get my child for normal contact but keep her for the full week, I will let my ex know once handover has taken place that i'm taking the holiday I'm entitled to - I have a court order in place stating I get 2 weeks holiday and it doesnt stipulate when (although she is trying to dictate when and said earlier this year was when I could have her but that's now passed). She's also refused every possible alternative to resolve the situation put across by my solicitor so it's not a case of me just deciding to do this - I've tried everything I can think and I'm concerned there are only a couple of months of the year left and it's still not sorted.
Can the police take my child out of my custody if I were to do this or must my ex raise an emergency court order? And if she did what's the likely outcome? I am on the birth certificate etc.
Please help
You've been a great help - still no update on my previous post about varying the court order in place to get more equal access to my child but it's meant to be up soon so fingers crossed.
My ex is constantly being difficult, she even put in a last minute proposal immediately before the hearing which I haven't yet seen but for the only reason I can think of is to delay a decision being made further - every single time her solicitor sends a proposal it's always less than 24 hours before the hearing is meant to take place, I've told my solicitor I have issues interpreting complex data so this kind of short notice to make a decision doesn't help me - he has said to her solicitor to send things earlier in a polite fashion but is there anything else that can be done? I take it the judge won't really be interested?
Separate to that - I'm still due another week holiday with my child, her mother has had both she's entitled to (and at the time she preferred) but she wont let me take my last week when is best for me in getting time off work etc and now there are only 2 months left of the year and she/her solicitor havent acknowledged my request to take the extra week during the festive period (but I suspect she'll say no).
What are the implications if I get my child for normal contact but keep her for the full week, I will let my ex know once handover has taken place that i'm taking the holiday I'm entitled to - I have a court order in place stating I get 2 weeks holiday and it doesnt stipulate when (although she is trying to dictate when and said earlier this year was when I could have her but that's now passed). She's also refused every possible alternative to resolve the situation put across by my solicitor so it's not a case of me just deciding to do this - I've tried everything I can think and I'm concerned there are only a couple of months of the year left and it's still not sorted.
Can the police take my child out of my custody if I were to do this or must my ex raise an emergency court order? And if she did what's the likely outcome? I am on the birth certificate etc.
Please help