Hi all, new member here…. Just wanted to seek advice on an awful situation I’m currently in.
I had my final hearing in January and got my alternate weekends and a midweek overnight. This has kicked in now.
My ex wasn’t happy at all that I got this and spouted a lot of lies trying to get the case adjourned etc which failed thankfully but I’m now left with an extremely bitter and dangerous ex.
About 6 weeks ago she accused me of abuse to my 2 year old, as my daughter had rawness on her privates, can’t believe I’m even writing this…. Anyway it went to social services and they stopped me having my midweek overnight for that week ; it turned out the doctors said the rawness was a reaction to bubble bath or something like that so my contact continued straight away. Social services came to see me and my daughter at my house which went really well as I knew it would and the case was closed a few weeks back.
My ex has now done the same again, messaged me this week saying that 9 days prior my daughter has the same rawness and she’s been to social services again, I called them and they again have to investigate the same disgusting claims, and I’ve lost my overnight again on their advice, apparently they told me today that my ex has also got the police involved.
The allegations are clearly not true; I have been through cafcass as standard , who have closed the case she is very well cared for by me(the social worker who came to see me said as much today on the phone) and I’m just really worried what is happening to my little girl after she goes home from my care, she will be missing me a lot and it seems that to bypass the court order my ex just needs to say something to social services whenever she sees fit.
I’m concerned she is creating a rash for example to make it look like it’s me that’s responsible and I wouldn’t put anything past her!
My question is, is there anything I can do about this, can i take legal action? Can I apply to courts again and tell them what’s happening?
My ex has a lot of deep rooted issues from her childhood, she has severe adhd that she takes medication for and that impacts her controlling behaviour badly, she’s just pulled my daughter out of a perfectly good nursery as she accused the nursery nurse of assault twice and she is just not getting the consistency a child of her age deserves.
I also have an 8 year old girl from a previous relationship whom i spend a fair amount of time with and nothing like this has ever been brought into my life ever before.
Any advise would be much appreciated
Thanks
L
I had my final hearing in January and got my alternate weekends and a midweek overnight. This has kicked in now.
My ex wasn’t happy at all that I got this and spouted a lot of lies trying to get the case adjourned etc which failed thankfully but I’m now left with an extremely bitter and dangerous ex.
About 6 weeks ago she accused me of abuse to my 2 year old, as my daughter had rawness on her privates, can’t believe I’m even writing this…. Anyway it went to social services and they stopped me having my midweek overnight for that week ; it turned out the doctors said the rawness was a reaction to bubble bath or something like that so my contact continued straight away. Social services came to see me and my daughter at my house which went really well as I knew it would and the case was closed a few weeks back.
My ex has now done the same again, messaged me this week saying that 9 days prior my daughter has the same rawness and she’s been to social services again, I called them and they again have to investigate the same disgusting claims, and I’ve lost my overnight again on their advice, apparently they told me today that my ex has also got the police involved.
The allegations are clearly not true; I have been through cafcass as standard , who have closed the case she is very well cared for by me(the social worker who came to see me said as much today on the phone) and I’m just really worried what is happening to my little girl after she goes home from my care, she will be missing me a lot and it seems that to bypass the court order my ex just needs to say something to social services whenever she sees fit.
I’m concerned she is creating a rash for example to make it look like it’s me that’s responsible and I wouldn’t put anything past her!
My question is, is there anything I can do about this, can i take legal action? Can I apply to courts again and tell them what’s happening?
My ex has a lot of deep rooted issues from her childhood, she has severe adhd that she takes medication for and that impacts her controlling behaviour badly, she’s just pulled my daughter out of a perfectly good nursery as she accused the nursery nurse of assault twice and she is just not getting the consistency a child of her age deserves.
I also have an 8 year old girl from a previous relationship whom i spend a fair amount of time with and nothing like this has ever been brought into my life ever before.
Any advise would be much appreciated
Thanks
L