Hi can you give me some advice please sorry this message may be long .
My husband as always paid csa into his ex account for years even though the mother wouldn’t let him see him .. his son left school and got a job so husband stopped paying . The ex was livid when he stopped paying ..Then the son got caught thieving at work and was sacked mother was not bothered I said it’s so she can still claim for him . The son as not lived with mum for nearly 2 years he lives with gf . The son is now 18 mother still claims for him and made him go and sign on a college course so she can still get benefits . We think she is going to go to csa to get money from us . Iv said I will get a private investigator and prove he is not living with her does my husband still have to pay for his son .
Sorry to message but years of hell with this woman and I need to be one step ahead
My husband as always paid csa into his ex account for years even though the mother wouldn’t let him see him .. his son left school and got a job so husband stopped paying . The ex was livid when he stopped paying ..Then the son got caught thieving at work and was sacked mother was not bothered I said it’s so she can still claim for him . The son as not lived with mum for nearly 2 years he lives with gf . The son is now 18 mother still claims for him and made him go and sign on a college course so she can still get benefits . We think she is going to go to csa to get money from us . Iv said I will get a private investigator and prove he is not living with her does my husband still have to pay for his son .
Sorry to message but years of hell with this woman and I need to be one step ahead