I know my story isn’t as desperate as some on here, but feel the need to get it off my chest.
Was married for 12 years, but divorced my ex due to her poor behaviour. She subsequently turns into a desperately bitter human being. I end up paying her massive monthly maintenance, while she sits at home (for the last 8 years) doing nothing…. Claiming that her job is being mother to my kids.
Over the years my time with the kids creeps shorter as she starts arranging things on my time. Holidays become a flash point as she refuses me time with them… end up paying more legal fees to force the issues.
Have other awful incidents where she refuses to let the kids leave the house to prearranged lunches and the like. She captures me arguing with her on video (not even swearing btw) and tries to get me into trouble with the police, saying lll lose my job and so on. The authorities ofc have no interest because there’s no sign I’ve done anything wrong.
As the years pass by and she continues to violate schedules and holidays, I decide to apply for a court order to force her to behave. I try to make compromises during the whole process but she makes no credible attempt to build any bridges. And yesterday, rather than having existing schedules and arrangements rubber stamped, I have my time with the kids reduced to 2 nights a fortnight from 4.
And there we have it… I’m discriminated against because I’m a hard working father… and yet ultimately, I’m not even the one responsible for any of this…. And, along with the kids, I’m the one who suffers.
I’ll appeal… will probably lose. But I will not give up.
The system is rigged, but then I’m sure you all know that. Thanks for listening
Was married for 12 years, but divorced my ex due to her poor behaviour. She subsequently turns into a desperately bitter human being. I end up paying her massive monthly maintenance, while she sits at home (for the last 8 years) doing nothing…. Claiming that her job is being mother to my kids.
Over the years my time with the kids creeps shorter as she starts arranging things on my time. Holidays become a flash point as she refuses me time with them… end up paying more legal fees to force the issues.
Have other awful incidents where she refuses to let the kids leave the house to prearranged lunches and the like. She captures me arguing with her on video (not even swearing btw) and tries to get me into trouble with the police, saying lll lose my job and so on. The authorities ofc have no interest because there’s no sign I’ve done anything wrong.
As the years pass by and she continues to violate schedules and holidays, I decide to apply for a court order to force her to behave. I try to make compromises during the whole process but she makes no credible attempt to build any bridges. And yesterday, rather than having existing schedules and arrangements rubber stamped, I have my time with the kids reduced to 2 nights a fortnight from 4.
And there we have it… I’m discriminated against because I’m a hard working father… and yet ultimately, I’m not even the one responsible for any of this…. And, along with the kids, I’m the one who suffers.
I’ll appeal… will probably lose. But I will not give up.
The system is rigged, but then I’m sure you all know that. Thanks for listening