Hi all,
I have mentioned a bit about this on another thread but just wanted to see if anybody out there can offer some feedback.
CAO all sorted and not an issue anymore.
However, shared holidays are coming up now so there is conversations about FaceTiming/calls while away. My daughter goes away for 16 nights on 18th August and I proposed a scheduled FaceTime every 5 days. So 3 FaceTimes in total. Nothing intrusive but offers consistency and some comfort/security. We have done FaceTimes for the last few holidays even when we were going through CAO and I obviously always encourage them as well. No problem at all for me as it’s great for the little one. Of my daughter ever asked I would never get in the way of it
My ex has basically refused anymore FaceTimes while away saying “it’s not in the court order” ffs!
I am considering submitting a SIO and door all LIP. My final hearing was back in Feb so less than 6 months ago now.
I genuinely don’t think it’s healthy for a 4 years old to go that long without chatting to the other parent. Regardless who it is!
Am I barking up the wrong tree?
Is it to soon? Last thing I want to do is put a S91 (14) on the radar…
Anybody done this or experienced this?
Is it something I just have to swallow regardless of potential impact on the little one.
I have messaged her about it and expressed my concerns in a very very polite and amicable way 2 days but got no answer. So I doubt very much meditation will work either.
Thoughts?
I have mentioned a bit about this on another thread but just wanted to see if anybody out there can offer some feedback.
CAO all sorted and not an issue anymore.
However, shared holidays are coming up now so there is conversations about FaceTiming/calls while away. My daughter goes away for 16 nights on 18th August and I proposed a scheduled FaceTime every 5 days. So 3 FaceTimes in total. Nothing intrusive but offers consistency and some comfort/security. We have done FaceTimes for the last few holidays even when we were going through CAO and I obviously always encourage them as well. No problem at all for me as it’s great for the little one. Of my daughter ever asked I would never get in the way of it
My ex has basically refused anymore FaceTimes while away saying “it’s not in the court order” ffs!
I am considering submitting a SIO and door all LIP. My final hearing was back in Feb so less than 6 months ago now.
I genuinely don’t think it’s healthy for a 4 years old to go that long without chatting to the other parent. Regardless who it is!
Am I barking up the wrong tree?
Is it to soon? Last thing I want to do is put a S91 (14) on the radar…
Anybody done this or experienced this?
Is it something I just have to swallow regardless of potential impact on the little one.
I have messaged her about it and expressed my concerns in a very very polite and amicable way 2 days but got no answer. So I doubt very much meditation will work either.
Thoughts?