My son has been visited at school for the section 7. Over the past couple of months the behaviour of the resident mother has gone into overdrive. When he's here with me he's happy, content and loving. But getting him here on the first night every fortnight has become fraught.
He told me that he has told Cafcass that he loves to spend time with daddy but doesn't want to stay overnight but he doesn't know why he said it. Before the separation it was never an issue. Totally illogical.
He has said to me that he regrets saying this to Cafcass now and that he doesn't know why he said it. He asked me if he could write to Cafcass and I agreed of course I know that this could/will be viewed cynically but it's short and genuine. If he was spoken to again I believe that he would verbalise it. He raised it to me. he'd be happy to be spoken to again. Nine years old
The case is quite complicated and this willingness to spend overnights is central.
I can communicate with the Cafcass officer.
Can I send this little written note or will it be totally frowned upon/disregarded? Any opinions welcomed.
He told me that he has told Cafcass that he loves to spend time with daddy but doesn't want to stay overnight but he doesn't know why he said it. Before the separation it was never an issue. Totally illogical.
He has said to me that he regrets saying this to Cafcass now and that he doesn't know why he said it. He asked me if he could write to Cafcass and I agreed of course I know that this could/will be viewed cynically but it's short and genuine. If he was spoken to again I believe that he would verbalise it. He raised it to me. he'd be happy to be spoken to again. Nine years old
The case is quite complicated and this willingness to spend overnights is central.
I can communicate with the Cafcass officer.
Can I send this little written note or will it be totally frowned upon/disregarded? Any opinions welcomed.