Morning all.
Quick question regarding solicitors fees. When my ex filed for divorce she made me agree to pay the fixed fee divorce which was £799 plus the court fee of £550. I also agreed to pay the costs for the financial consent order £900 plus £50 court fee. I agreed as at the time she had already made threats about cutting me off from the kids (which she is now doing anyway).
For background info, I agreed to all of her demands. She kept the house, all the contents, her car, any savings she had. Any debts in my name were to remain with me. I agreed to fulfil joint loans until settled in full and paid my half of the mortgage until the decree absolute came, this took about 13 months. We agreed that we had no interest on each others pensions.
She emptied and closed the joint bank account when we split; I had no idea what the balance was as she controlled all the finances. She also resigned as director of my company and emptied the business account, paying me no dividend, this was all on the same day and I was informed by her after she'd done it. To get me off the mortgage I also agreed her demand that I pay half of the early release fee from the mortgage in installments. So in addition to her child maintenance (informal agreement), I pay her every month for a joint loan and the mortgage release fee. She also told me I had to pay her for the kids savings accounts, but I recently stopped this as I can save for them myself if I wish to.
Anyway, as there was no contest around the finances and I'd agreed all of this in writing to her solicitors, the legal fees should have been no more that £2.5k. That allows for the cost of a few emails back and forth to them on top of the fixed fees and court fees. Stupidly I was paying her solicitor monthly and to be honest wasn't keeping up to date with what I was paying. Occasionally she'd send me an extra invoice from the solicitor and I'd immediately pay it without question.
Divorce was finalized May 2021, however in September last year and I get an email from my ex saying there was still just over £500 solicitors fees remaining. I thought this odd so started going back through all the payments and found I'd already paid them nearly £5k.
I'd emailed the solictors myself after the decree absolute and asked if the bill was settled and they told me that the only thing outstanding was £50 for the court fee for the financial consent order. I asked for an invoice and they never sent me one.
I asked my ex for an itemised breakdown of the solicitors fees so I could cross-reference against all
Quick question regarding solicitors fees. When my ex filed for divorce she made me agree to pay the fixed fee divorce which was £799 plus the court fee of £550. I also agreed to pay the costs for the financial consent order £900 plus £50 court fee. I agreed as at the time she had already made threats about cutting me off from the kids (which she is now doing anyway).
For background info, I agreed to all of her demands. She kept the house, all the contents, her car, any savings she had. Any debts in my name were to remain with me. I agreed to fulfil joint loans until settled in full and paid my half of the mortgage until the decree absolute came, this took about 13 months. We agreed that we had no interest on each others pensions.
She emptied and closed the joint bank account when we split; I had no idea what the balance was as she controlled all the finances. She also resigned as director of my company and emptied the business account, paying me no dividend, this was all on the same day and I was informed by her after she'd done it. To get me off the mortgage I also agreed her demand that I pay half of the early release fee from the mortgage in installments. So in addition to her child maintenance (informal agreement), I pay her every month for a joint loan and the mortgage release fee. She also told me I had to pay her for the kids savings accounts, but I recently stopped this as I can save for them myself if I wish to.
Anyway, as there was no contest around the finances and I'd agreed all of this in writing to her solicitors, the legal fees should have been no more that £2.5k. That allows for the cost of a few emails back and forth to them on top of the fixed fees and court fees. Stupidly I was paying her solicitor monthly and to be honest wasn't keeping up to date with what I was paying. Occasionally she'd send me an extra invoice from the solicitor and I'd immediately pay it without question.
Divorce was finalized May 2021, however in September last year and I get an email from my ex saying there was still just over £500 solicitors fees remaining. I thought this odd so started going back through all the payments and found I'd already paid them nearly £5k.
I'd emailed the solictors myself after the decree absolute and asked if the bill was settled and they told me that the only thing outstanding was £50 for the court fee for the financial consent order. I asked for an invoice and they never sent me one.
I asked my ex for an itemised breakdown of the solicitors fees so I could cross-reference against all