I'm not sure if this would fall under chill out and chat but didn't know where else it would fall under im currently going through the court process to gain cao to spend time with my child who's 8 the mother doesn't want me involved gave all the standard false allegations ect anyway I'm in a interim period at the moment indirect contact via letters progression to supported contact then unsupported then a final hearing in 5 months time I havent seen my child in 6 months I've just noticed my child has a social media account should I add it ? Now given the age I'd imagine this account is managed by my ex the mother what are everyone's thoughts?
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Yes add it.
You can use this to occasionally upload cute pictures and videos. Or send little posts saying 'thinking of you'. If your child then looks at them it's a small link that they may feel comfortable with. There's no pressure to answer questions just acknowledgement that dad is still there.
You can use this to occasionally upload cute pictures and videos. Or send little posts saying 'thinking of you'. If your child then looks at them it's a small link that they may feel comfortable with. There's no pressure to answer questions just acknowledgement that dad is still there.
chances are if my ex does manage it which given the age i think she will she wont accept the request anyway but with currently being in the indirect contact period via letter small gift video messages if I was to add it you don't think my ex could try and manipulate it in anyway to use against me in final hearing , I just want to be close to my child show them I'm here for them
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True I might wait until supported contact starts to try minimise any potential manipulation