Hi chaps,
Firstly, thank you to all involved in this forum, it has kept me going in this dark times.
I’m so fed up, ex has been making time with my child very difficult since early this year when we separated, but for the last couple of weekends I have been able to see them supervised with my family. I deinstructed my solicitor this week due to cost, and now surprise surprise exs solicitor has said ex has spoken to social services who are now suggesting I see my child through a contact centre. Previously they said supervised in the community was fine! I live a 8hr round trip to the proposed contact centre. I’ve been on bail for a couple of months due to allegations of domestic abuse which feels like it will never be lifted.
I was due to see my child this weekend and now that’s not happening. I was looking forward to some minimal time with them this weekend. Just to hear them call me daddy, to laugh and play.
I just don’t know if I have any fight left in me anymore for this. I don’t understand why ex has turned this evil. Really struggling to cope and feel suffocated by it all. Any motivating comments welcome.
Thanks all
Firstly, thank you to all involved in this forum, it has kept me going in this dark times.
I’m so fed up, ex has been making time with my child very difficult since early this year when we separated, but for the last couple of weekends I have been able to see them supervised with my family. I deinstructed my solicitor this week due to cost, and now surprise surprise exs solicitor has said ex has spoken to social services who are now suggesting I see my child through a contact centre. Previously they said supervised in the community was fine! I live a 8hr round trip to the proposed contact centre. I’ve been on bail for a couple of months due to allegations of domestic abuse which feels like it will never be lifted.
I was due to see my child this weekend and now that’s not happening. I was looking forward to some minimal time with them this weekend. Just to hear them call me daddy, to laugh and play.
I just don’t know if I have any fight left in me anymore for this. I don’t understand why ex has turned this evil. Really struggling to cope and feel suffocated by it all. Any motivating comments welcome.
Thanks all