Thanks mate - things such as:I think by far the most important point made on DWK is don't get involved in retaliating to allegations made by the mother - Ash has spoken at great length about replying with empathetic tones to the mothers stance. And referring to the quality of her soup! Come with kindness in other words. I won't find it easy but somebody spoke about the idea of speaking to a grey wall on another thread which is a great metaphor.
Can I ask what notes you have made HaychAyy?
1) What I actually want from the order? Why it will be beneficial for my child?
2) What have I been doing in the interim to maintain a relationship with my child as best as possible?
3) What contribution I can bring to my childs life and things I am prepared to do?
4) A few questions I intend on raising
5) A bunch of other general stuff along the same lines