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Hello,

I have my son shared in the holidays, as per court order. I have a holiday booked at the end of July for 5 nights. I do believe she will say no, do you know how long a specific issues application takes?
 
First step is email your ex with a deadline to reply saying you are planning on taking child out of the country and you will need passports prior.

If you dont then get a reply you have reason for the special issue app.

I’d email now and give her till next Thursday. If no response then get application off next friday
 
I have his passport, I applied for his after court as I know she would not give it. So would you just ask her for permission really?
 
If the court order says you have to get agreement to go abroad then I would ask her permission. Then apply when she ignored you.
 
You can see all costs on the EX50 court costs webpage:




For the SIO it falls under the below @ £255 for the application

Any new applications under the Children Act 1989 to request permission to issue proceedings or for an order or directions to be made concerning the child or children, for example child arrangements order, prohibited steps order, specific issue order or special guardianship order (with the exception of applications for care and supervision orders which are issued by local authorities)
 
Hello all,

I am back again for some advise, my ex is wanting the passport for son. I have refused advising there needs to be something legal in place which says she will return this as there is trust issues there obviously. She has said she is going to apply to the family and I am wondering If I have to pay any of these costs as she saying I will have to please.

Thank you
 
Hello all,

I am back again for some advise, my ex is wanting the passport for son. I have refused advising there needs to be something legal in place which says she will return this as there is trust issues there obviously. She has said she is going to apply to the family and I am wondering If I have to pay any of these costs as she saying I will have to please.

Thank you
Let her apply, it's a threat.

Wait and see what hear application is for, if it's a specific issue order for passport only or a holiday, then you could always just turn up without paying a thing and LIP.

Did you manage to go on ur holiday yet?

She sounds like she is just causing drama if she won't give you a reason why, just ignore her.

If she doesn't give you a very detailed and specific reason in writing why she needs it, then she doesn't need it.
 
Let her apply, it's a threat.

Wait and see what hear application is for, if it's a specific issue order for passport only or a holiday, then you could always just turn up without paying a thing and LIP.

Did you manage to go on ur holiday yet?

She sounds like she is just causing drama if she won't give you a reason why, just ignore her.

If she doesn't give you a very detailed and specific reason in writing why she needs it, then she doesn't need it.
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Let her apply, it's a threat.

Wait and see what hear application is for, if it's a specific issue order for passport only or a holiday, then you could always just turn up without paying a thing and LIP.

Did you manage to go on ur holiday yet?

She sounds like she is just causing drama if she won't give you a reason why, just ignore her.

If she doesn't give you a very detailed and specific reason in writing why she needs it, then she doesn't need it.
She said she has booked a holiday and needed the passport. Of course I want him to go away with both of us, I just don't believe she will give me it back and this is why I don't want to give it her.

Yes we went on our holiday in July.
 
She should provide evidence of all foreign holidays.

If she can show you that you'll probably need to hand them over.
 
Hello there,

My ex has applied for a specific issue order please see email from her solicitor below,

You may recall that I represented ex in respect of previous proceeding concerning your son.

I understand that you have possession of sons passport and I have been told by ex you will not return it to her so that that son travel to xxxx for a holiday with his.mother. despite the passport being given to you to take son on holiday. Unless I receive confirmation by 12 noon on Thursday 16th January that you will return passport to ex when you next return son to her care then we will apply for a specific issues order that ex has possession of passport other than for the duration of any holiday that she agrees for son spending time with you. An application for costs will also be made against you, I trust this will not be necessary.

First of she has lied, it was me who applied for the passport and retrieved it. I never refused to give her the passport either, I explained there needs to be something legal in place so I am assured she will give it back as I believe she will keep it. Is there any advice on next steps please?
She should provide evidence of all foreign holidays.

If she can show you that you'll probably need to hand them over.
 
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Hello there,

My ex has applied for a specific issue order please see email from her solicitor below,

You may recall that I represented ex in respect of previous proceeding concerning your son.

I understand that you have possession of sons passport and I have been told by ex you will not return it to her so that that son travel to Thailand for a holiday with his.mother. despite the passport being given to you to take son on holiday. Unless I receive confirmation by 12 noon on Thursday 16th January that you will return passport to ex when you next return son to her care then we will apply for a specific issues order that ex has possession of passport other than for the duration of any holiday that she agrees for son spending time with you. An application for costs will also be made against you, I trust this will not be necessary.

First of she has lied, it was me who applied for the passport and retrieved it. I never refused to give her the passport either, I explained there needs to be something legal in place so I am assured she will give it back as I believe she will keep it. Is there any advice on next steps please?
Does your CAO not make statements about one parent notifying the other of planned holidays? If so why not let her have it, give her the required notice when you're due to go on holiday and then keep it until she next does the same so it becomes a back and forth with the passport.

Right now it's been with you for what, eight months?

Passports become part of the battleground, they symbolise something weighty.
 
The thing is If I give her the passport I worry she won't give it back and also do I have to pay for court costs like her solicitor said? Again I want it to be shared completely as I know it's the best thing for my son, I just need something legal in place.
 
The thing is If I give her the passport I worry she won't give it back and also do I have to pay for court costs like her solicitor said? Again I want it to be shared completely as I know it's the best thing for my son, I just need something legal in place.
What exactly does the court order state regarding holidays and notice to be given of planned holidays?

Does she have to give it back? Does the court order state that the passport is to be held by you?
 
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I'm guessing the current order doesn't say anything about passports, is that right? It doesn't matter who sent for or bought the passport, but if it's her court ordered holiday time and she has a holiday booked you'd be expected to let her have the passport. The court will order you to give it to her as part of a specific issues application as they prioritise holidays for a child. Unless you think there's a risk she could abduct the child to that country (is that where she's from?) and then you'd need to put a prohibited steps order in yourself. I took out the name of the country from your post so it doesn't identify you.
 
Hello all,

I wanted some advise please. I'm ex is stopping me from accessing my GP even though this in the court order she is not releasing the details so I do not even know where it is, Is there anyone in the NHS I can speak to regarding this please? Also she has requested my son's passport details, I am not sure why she asked this and it concerns me that she will attempt to ring the airport office and attempt to say something to stop me and my son going on holiday, I have booked one for July, any advise
if you have a court order regarding passports, then follow it, but she won't just be able to ring the airport and stop you flying. If you have a court order, take a copy with you for your holiday, unless she has a court order or prohibited steps order that supersedes it, she wont be able to stop you or your child from boarding a legitimate flight.
 
Hello there,

She is going ahead with a specific issue order, would you recommend handing over the passport, is there anything I can put in place to said it is shared as I believe she will keep it?
 
Hello there,

She is going ahead with a specific issue order, would you recommend handing over the passport, is there anything I can put in place to said it is shared as I believe she will keep it?
What does the CAO state about holidays/passports and notice periods to be given?
 
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