Hello.
I'm new here.
I try to describe my situation as simple as possible.
I'm a father of 13 years old daughter.
In the past I've been accused by my x for dv which after tough and long battle 99% of allegations was dismissed and my contact been immediately restored.
I'm having two days a week unsupervised contact for the past 2 years.
Some time ago I have spotted my daughter's mom trying to interfere in our relationship.
Making my daughter act out of the blue or refuse contact with me.
It comes to my attention this is starting to be very odd as previously she barely showed any negative attitude toward me.
Most of our times are positive, on my days picking her up from school we hold hands till we reach home every single time. I'm fully involve in all school activities. On few occasions she even used to come for a lunch on days that's not my turn.
Around two months ago I found she carried second phone as I put restrictions regarding use of mobile devices during our time as this only distracting her.
I found the mobile has the installed app constantly updating my daughter's whereabouts. I have called her mom on that.Which she didn't like it.
That's where all started.
My daughter's mom regularly refused to send my daughter over, telling me she's no longer want to see me. She telling me, my daughter feels anxious and uncomfortable to be around me.While I have evidence it's the opposite.
I send her couple of warnings informing her she's interfering in my parenting plan and time, she breaching court order for not complying.
I informed her too , if this will continue I'll take actions and all will end in courtroom.
This been happening during entire July.
Finally at the begging of August I applied to court as her approach haven't changed.
Week ago we both received welcome email from caffcass and c100 with c1a forms.
On the same day I received an email from my x
stating my daughter has spoken to school at the end of last term(July) about not wanting to see me which school haven't informed me about.
I tried to contract them to talk through about it but not heard from them for a week.
At the end of the last week school been holding prize giving event for students and all parent been invited which I attended.
Unfortunately when I tried to approach my daughter she made a hysterical scene,
crying and screaming "keep him away" and "don't let him come to me".
Which shocked me as my last day with her we been laughing.
I don't know where to seek help.
I tried to speak to court but note they advised me to fill the application which I already did. I also been advice to seek help with solicitor but it's out of question as my finances are limited and cannot afford it.
I don't know what to do as clearly her mom influence her to act this way. Knowing previously been allegations of dv , I believe my x will excuse it to keep the process delayed.
What can I do to get the order enforced and keep contact restored ASAP.
I been thinking about filing urgent c2 but my court does not accept paper form any longer and asking to apply online.
I'm not too familiar how to do it , on court website there's only standard c100 to fill which cost £255.
Will be greatful for any help.
Desperate Dad.
I'm new here.
I try to describe my situation as simple as possible.
I'm a father of 13 years old daughter.
In the past I've been accused by my x for dv which after tough and long battle 99% of allegations was dismissed and my contact been immediately restored.
I'm having two days a week unsupervised contact for the past 2 years.
Some time ago I have spotted my daughter's mom trying to interfere in our relationship.
Making my daughter act out of the blue or refuse contact with me.
It comes to my attention this is starting to be very odd as previously she barely showed any negative attitude toward me.
Most of our times are positive, on my days picking her up from school we hold hands till we reach home every single time. I'm fully involve in all school activities. On few occasions she even used to come for a lunch on days that's not my turn.
Around two months ago I found she carried second phone as I put restrictions regarding use of mobile devices during our time as this only distracting her.
I found the mobile has the installed app constantly updating my daughter's whereabouts. I have called her mom on that.Which she didn't like it.
That's where all started.
My daughter's mom regularly refused to send my daughter over, telling me she's no longer want to see me. She telling me, my daughter feels anxious and uncomfortable to be around me.While I have evidence it's the opposite.
I send her couple of warnings informing her she's interfering in my parenting plan and time, she breaching court order for not complying.
I informed her too , if this will continue I'll take actions and all will end in courtroom.
This been happening during entire July.
Finally at the begging of August I applied to court as her approach haven't changed.
Week ago we both received welcome email from caffcass and c100 with c1a forms.
On the same day I received an email from my x
stating my daughter has spoken to school at the end of last term(July) about not wanting to see me which school haven't informed me about.
I tried to contract them to talk through about it but not heard from them for a week.
At the end of the last week school been holding prize giving event for students and all parent been invited which I attended.
Unfortunately when I tried to approach my daughter she made a hysterical scene,
crying and screaming "keep him away" and "don't let him come to me".
Which shocked me as my last day with her we been laughing.
I don't know where to seek help.
I tried to speak to court but note they advised me to fill the application which I already did. I also been advice to seek help with solicitor but it's out of question as my finances are limited and cannot afford it.
I don't know what to do as clearly her mom influence her to act this way. Knowing previously been allegations of dv , I believe my x will excuse it to keep the process delayed.
What can I do to get the order enforced and keep contact restored ASAP.
I been thinking about filing urgent c2 but my court does not accept paper form any longer and asking to apply online.
I'm not too familiar how to do it , on court website there's only standard c100 to fill which cost £255.
Will be greatful for any help.
Desperate Dad.