Hi Guys,
I have been split with my wife since Oct 2020 and we were still doing things together with the 2 kids for a year. We have been amicable and had settled on a value for a separation agreement. I went through the necessary with my mortgage company(only me named) and i have the finances available now. She has stalled a bit on signing and decided she wants to have some pension too now so still unsigned. Things have changed between us and we have both moved on although she still wants me back once she realised i was seeing someone. Recently she has threatened that the finances AREN’T sorted and that she didnt agree with the valuation and asset values! “Its been a few months since the valuation so the value has risen slightly” according to her so she should get more.
I was on the limit as to what i can get out of the house anyway so there is no more money! Unless i sell.
We or I was trying to stay out of courts/solicitors to save money but its looking more like it will need to.
I was looking for some advice on when the house value should be taken? Oct2020, June2022 or Now?
I feel a bit put out as im sure a lot of us do. I aways paid the mortgage and bills and topped her up £3-400 pcm toward the cost of the kids. She did the food and clothes. I have the kids 50% of the weekend overnights and have them 30-40% of the time after school as i work shifts but no overnights.
Sorry for the long post from a very frustrated Dad!!
I have been split with my wife since Oct 2020 and we were still doing things together with the 2 kids for a year. We have been amicable and had settled on a value for a separation agreement. I went through the necessary with my mortgage company(only me named) and i have the finances available now. She has stalled a bit on signing and decided she wants to have some pension too now so still unsigned. Things have changed between us and we have both moved on although she still wants me back once she realised i was seeing someone. Recently she has threatened that the finances AREN’T sorted and that she didnt agree with the valuation and asset values! “Its been a few months since the valuation so the value has risen slightly” according to her so she should get more.
I was on the limit as to what i can get out of the house anyway so there is no more money! Unless i sell.
We or I was trying to stay out of courts/solicitors to save money but its looking more like it will need to.
I was looking for some advice on when the house value should be taken? Oct2020, June2022 or Now?
I feel a bit put out as im sure a lot of us do. I aways paid the mortgage and bills and topped her up £3-400 pcm toward the cost of the kids. She did the food and clothes. I have the kids 50% of the weekend overnights and have them 30-40% of the time after school as i work shifts but no overnights.
Sorry for the long post from a very frustrated Dad!!