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I'd be in full agreement.
If you agree to an 8 month freeze you are setting yourself up for the status quo.
Thanks bakedapple - can i ask why between now and 5? Why not sooner. Ideally i’d like to be at 50/50 by the time he is 3. He is currently 2years and 2months.This is a pathetic bone she's throwing you. In 8 months time, she won't increase and the 8 a month will be the de-facto norm by then.
The only way I'd settle on 8 a month out of court is with a signed agreement of a path to 50:50 between now and aged 5; looking at the results on this forum, and assuming no safeguarding concerns, courts are becoming a tiny bit more favourable to the dad - look though the court results forum to see what other dads are achieving and set that as your target.
Exactly this. She is stringing you along and then if you applied to court they would say there is already an existing pattern. I think you should apply to court now, for 50/50, asking for progression to 50/50 by aged 3 with gradually increasing time meanwhile. That can all be set out in an order and your ex can't call the shots any more then.This is a pathetic bone she's throwing you. In 8 months time, she won't increase and the 8 a month will be the de-facto norm by then.
The only way I'd settle on 8 a month out of court is with a signed agreement of a path to 50:50 between now and aged 5; looking at the results on this forum, and assuming no safeguarding concerns, courts are becoming a tiny bit more favourable to the dad - look though the court results forum to see what other dads are achieving and set that as your target.