Hi All
I'm in a situation where I have been seperated for over 3 years and have a 12 year old daughter. While we have a parenting plan in place which is 2 days per week with me and the rest of the time with Mum (mainly to suit Mum). We have failed to come to any agreement on selling the family home and what to do with the proceeds. I have made various offers, the most recent involving balancing pensions as well as a 60/40 split in equity in favour of my ex but they either get completely ignored or refused out of hand with nothing coming back. We did the first stage of divorce pretty soon after separating but as soon as the financial side needed sorting it came to a halt. I am stuck in rented accomodation and can no longer afford to pay for that as well as child maintenance payments and contribute towards the family home. (I did that for the first 2 years but can't keep going at that level). So for the last year I have just paid the child maintenance figure dictated by the CMS (she went to them when I said it was half the mortgage or child maintenance payments as I couldn't do both).
For obvious reasons I can't let the situation carry in idefinitely, so am wondering where to start to make progress with all this. I did start to use a solicitor but quickly realised I wouldn't be able to fund that for long so stopped).
My question is, can I do this myself? If so where to start? Is it a case of starting with th C100 form? (we did try mediation but she walked out of the second meeting and refused to try again). Or should I be doing something else first as the childcare arrangements aren't necessarily the problem in the short term?
Many Thanks!
I'm in a situation where I have been seperated for over 3 years and have a 12 year old daughter. While we have a parenting plan in place which is 2 days per week with me and the rest of the time with Mum (mainly to suit Mum). We have failed to come to any agreement on selling the family home and what to do with the proceeds. I have made various offers, the most recent involving balancing pensions as well as a 60/40 split in equity in favour of my ex but they either get completely ignored or refused out of hand with nothing coming back. We did the first stage of divorce pretty soon after separating but as soon as the financial side needed sorting it came to a halt. I am stuck in rented accomodation and can no longer afford to pay for that as well as child maintenance payments and contribute towards the family home. (I did that for the first 2 years but can't keep going at that level). So for the last year I have just paid the child maintenance figure dictated by the CMS (she went to them when I said it was half the mortgage or child maintenance payments as I couldn't do both).
For obvious reasons I can't let the situation carry in idefinitely, so am wondering where to start to make progress with all this. I did start to use a solicitor but quickly realised I wouldn't be able to fund that for long so stopped).
My question is, can I do this myself? If so where to start? Is it a case of starting with th C100 form? (we did try mediation but she walked out of the second meeting and refused to try again). Or should I be doing something else first as the childcare arrangements aren't necessarily the problem in the short term?
Many Thanks!