Thanks Ash, in the threatening email from Mum's solicitors if the ISW were to see the girls at school they want her to see the entire court bundle of old allegations etc etc and again threatening cafcass they will go after them if they do not do it. As you say they are threatening to take it back to court to change the last order.
They are angry that following 7 positive reports from the ISW that they demanded she was appointed they are now wanting to push her aside and also push Cafcass into a corner and bully them into producing a report that basically states the kids don't come back to me or the family home and that no access / supervised is maintained.
I am just horrified that the woman I married and her family to be so cruel and heartless, no compassion at all is truly shocking to me. I have done nothing wrong but I feel a shadow of who I was before. This has traumatised and damaged me.
Its messy and cruel what is happening, they are the lowest of the low solicitors. I'm trying to get the view of my paralegal what he can advise, but at the moment it might be prudent to see how Cafcass respond to the threats made to them. i'm heartbroken and now low on money as my last resources were being saved for the final hearing for two days in Jan.
There cards are on the table in what they intend to come at me and attack me at the final hearing (old allegations all dismissed, attack my emotional, mental state e.g acceptance of the divorce etc etc), it is so brutal and soul destroying. - I expect if it happens i will be questioned for hours. I feel sick with worry and stress. I was hospitalised with stress back in 2020 during covid, parents were so ill (dad died in 2021), mum dementia (had to also sort out parents home to pay for care etc), work was uncompromising and it just went on. But the knots in my stomach are coming back and its not good.
I thank you all for the help but I keep fighting for my children and not to be forcibly removed from their lives.
