ICFA - Court Appointed

[DadLad]

Hello everyone,

I wanted to share an update regarding my situation. Following the recent ICFA sessions, which I believed were instrumental in rebuilding my relationship with my child, we have a beautiful, loving and thriving bond.

The mother has now decided to refuse further contact after the ICFA sessions have concluded. She has also refused any communication with me which makes any co-parenting extremely difficult. She has also refused to share any school information with me.

The progress we made during those sessions has been significant, and I fear that halting contact will undo all the hard work we’ve accomplished in reintroducing our bond. The thought of not seeing my child for several months is distressing for me, but what weighs even heavier is the emotional impact this will have on our child.

I’m reaching out to see if anyone has experienced a similar situation and can offer guidance on how to navigate this challenging time. Any support or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for listening.

 

[DadLad]

Ive raised my concerns with Cafcass. This was a balanced and formal email rather than an attack.

 

[DadLad]

Cafcass are basically saying that they can't force the mother to do anything. They are absolutely useless.

What are my next steps/ options?

C2 urgent court order for interim contract?

 

[Pj66]

Hello everyone,

I wanted to share an update regarding my situation. Following the recent ICFA sessions, which I believed were instrumental in rebuilding my relationship with my child, we have a beautiful, loving and thriving bond.

The mother has now decided to refuse further contact after the ICFA sessions have concluded. She has also refused any communication with me which makes any co-parenting extremely difficult. She has also refused to share any school information with me.

The progress we made during those sessions has been significant, and I fear that halting contact will undo all the hard work we’ve accomplished in reintroducing our bond. The thought of not seeing my child for several months is distressing for me, but what weighs even heavier is the emotional impact this will have on our child.

I’m reaching out to see if anyone has experienced a similar situation and can offer guidance on how to navigate this challenging time. Any support or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for listening.

unbelievable, C2 on an urgent basis and email the court and ask to forward to the judge.

Mother essentially saying you had your reintroduction and now now further, ridiculous, she will get a scolding if the ICFA foudn no issues.

C2 ASAP

 

[Peanut 21]

The mother has now decided to refuse further contact after the ICFA sessions have concluded.

Do you have this is writing?
If so attach to the C2.

 

[DadLad]

Just what the mother has said to the facilitator but I've asked for it in writing from the facilitator.

The notes provided from ICFA will show the mother is refusing any form of communication and will not agree to contact continuing after ICFA has finished.

The months of hard work, time and effort will be reversed. And most importantly, the wellbeing of our child will most definitely take a negative turn.