Its just all so unbearable. I'm trying but it often just feels like too much. I miss the children soooo much its hurts, i well up with tears constantly when I think out them. I miss my family life and even after all thats happened my ex. The biggest chunk of me is just gone and I cant see how to look to the future or how to rebuild and move forward. There's always something 24/7 messing with my head. I even have dreams/nightmares every fuckin night about some aspect of whats going on. There's just no let up. My brain just jumps from one shit thing to the next. The ex, the court crap, my new bleak future, my bad decisions. I question myself on everything I have to think about. At this point in time I hate life, the only thing that keeps me going is my awesome little dudes. Everything else is just like quick sand and its a fight not to sink. Talking therapy is ok but not the magic bullet I had hoped and the medication I'm on seems ineffective (but I dont know what I'd be like not on it) but I cant go back to the docs as I don't want it on my records right now for obvious reasons. Its like being in a trap with nowhere to go or any idea of which way to turn. I put on the good old dad act when I speak to them both but being removed from their lives is destroying me and even when I do get back in their lives properly it wont be like it was and that just turns my stomach. I can talk to certain people about it but they just don't know or understand what its like to be in it, the daily heartache, the daily regrets, the daily grind, the daily torment. This is just horrific