Hi everyone,
I'm seeking some advice regarding my situation. My partner, who I've been with for over 18 years, left in June. I own my house, and the mortgage is in my name because she couldn't be approved due to her past illnesses and lack of employment.
Since the separation, I've had the children 90% of the time, handling school drop-offs and pick-ups while working full-time. My ex has had minimal involvement, only taking the kids for a few hours on Saturdays. Our youngest has stayed with her a couple of times.
After taking the kids on holiday, my ex seemed more amicable, and I suggested we remain friends for the sake of our daughters. My ex has been through a lot, including a cancer diagnosis five years ago, and I've supported her throughout. When she received good news about her health, I was happy for her to focus on her own life, especially if she wasn't happy with me.
Recently, I asked if she could pick the girls up from school, but she only agreed to do it on certain days, which was frustrating given that she doesn't work. To add to this, I discovered she's still claiming tax credits for the kids, which she has been doing for years, even though I'm financially stable and haven’t claimed.
She’s moving into a new house soon, and I’m concerned she might try to take the kids away from me, possibly seeking child maintenance and restricting my access. She now only communicates via email, which I'm refusing, as she rarely responds. Her family has also mentioned that reasoning with her is difficult.
Given that she’s on PIP and claims to need care, should I take any steps to protect my access to the children and prevent potential issues?
I'm seeking some advice regarding my situation. My partner, who I've been with for over 18 years, left in June. I own my house, and the mortgage is in my name because she couldn't be approved due to her past illnesses and lack of employment.
Since the separation, I've had the children 90% of the time, handling school drop-offs and pick-ups while working full-time. My ex has had minimal involvement, only taking the kids for a few hours on Saturdays. Our youngest has stayed with her a couple of times.
After taking the kids on holiday, my ex seemed more amicable, and I suggested we remain friends for the sake of our daughters. My ex has been through a lot, including a cancer diagnosis five years ago, and I've supported her throughout. When she received good news about her health, I was happy for her to focus on her own life, especially if she wasn't happy with me.
Recently, I asked if she could pick the girls up from school, but she only agreed to do it on certain days, which was frustrating given that she doesn't work. To add to this, I discovered she's still claiming tax credits for the kids, which she has been doing for years, even though I'm financially stable and haven’t claimed.
She’s moving into a new house soon, and I’m concerned she might try to take the kids away from me, possibly seeking child maintenance and restricting my access. She now only communicates via email, which I'm refusing, as she rarely responds. Her family has also mentioned that reasoning with her is difficult.
Given that she’s on PIP and claims to need care, should I take any steps to protect my access to the children and prevent potential issues?