In some ways it doesn't actually matter what the children say to Cafcass. A good Cafcass officer will ask the right questions and ascertain that child has been coached. If it's a ropey Cafcass officer and they just take what child says, then you argue against that at final hearing, as there's plenty of case law to say that it is only the child's "ascertainable wishes" that count not their "expressed wishes". Also the child's wishes are only one twelfth of the welfare checklist.
Absolutely yes, it is slowly being taken out of her control.
Absolutely yes, it is slowly being taken out of her control.