Hello everyone.
I haven’t been around much just been trying my hardest to cope with everything which I’m just about doing but I’m okay I have my good days and really bad days but I know the position I’m in now and the reality of my situation.
Ex has stuck to little one walking our dog once a month and got an email yesterday for her to come today. I did say in reply that this time I’d be standing at the door to wave at my little one so she didn’t think I just didn’t care. Last month I didn’t as wasn’t sure how to handle the situation but thought I won’t hide away. My little one may want nothing to do with me but she will see me standing there proud and letting her know I’m there.
So they arrived today and ex and her partner were at door but so was my little one so I at least got to see her only for about 30 seconds but she was sitting touching distance. She wouldn’t speak to me at all and ignored me when I spoke to her but I wasn’t expecting to actually see her so whilst it’s a tiny thing it was huge to me.
Very much I’ve been replaced by mums partner she clung to him the whole time and wouldn’t even look at me so that was tough to take but also shows what ex is about as zero reason for her partner to come to door as well.
Toughest part is seeing her has been amazing even if extremely brief but also it’s hurt my heart so much to have her so close and to be treated like I don’t exist.
I cling on to the small hope that one day when she’s older and she can think for herself that she at least wants answers but I’m also having to come to terms with the fact that may never happen.
All of this has destroyed me completely and I am really just existing these days. I try to be as happy as I can be but that has been ripped out of me over the last few years.
My love for my little girl is unexplainable and I will always be there ready if she ever seeks me out.
I hope all of you are doing as well as you be
I haven’t been around much just been trying my hardest to cope with everything which I’m just about doing but I’m okay I have my good days and really bad days but I know the position I’m in now and the reality of my situation.
Ex has stuck to little one walking our dog once a month and got an email yesterday for her to come today. I did say in reply that this time I’d be standing at the door to wave at my little one so she didn’t think I just didn’t care. Last month I didn’t as wasn’t sure how to handle the situation but thought I won’t hide away. My little one may want nothing to do with me but she will see me standing there proud and letting her know I’m there.
So they arrived today and ex and her partner were at door but so was my little one so I at least got to see her only for about 30 seconds but she was sitting touching distance. She wouldn’t speak to me at all and ignored me when I spoke to her but I wasn’t expecting to actually see her so whilst it’s a tiny thing it was huge to me.
Very much I’ve been replaced by mums partner she clung to him the whole time and wouldn’t even look at me so that was tough to take but also shows what ex is about as zero reason for her partner to come to door as well.
Toughest part is seeing her has been amazing even if extremely brief but also it’s hurt my heart so much to have her so close and to be treated like I don’t exist.
I cling on to the small hope that one day when she’s older and she can think for herself that she at least wants answers but I’m also having to come to terms with the fact that may never happen.
All of this has destroyed me completely and I am really just existing these days. I try to be as happy as I can be but that has been ripped out of me over the last few years.
My love for my little girl is unexplainable and I will always be there ready if she ever seeks me out.
I hope all of you are doing as well as you be