Hi All,
I just read a post on a Family law advice FB group. The post read something along the lines of: “my ex has sent his partner/parent/au pair (or whatever) to drop-off/pick-up our child. The court order says that father does the drop-offs/pick-ups, is this a breach of the order?”.
All the answers in the FB group were along the lines of “the court order says ‘dad’ does the handovers therefore it’s a breach of the order and you should report him etc etc”.
I hadn’t ever considered this. In a normal sane practical world then a nominated responsible person should be able to conduct the handovers; however, it’s perfectly possible that a difficult co-parent will refuse to perform the handover if it’s not actually ‘dad’ that’s present.
Does anyone have any experience in this? Is it worth including “father (or a trusted person nominated by father) to drop-off at 6pm”. I would never have imagined someone could be this petty so as to insist on the names individuals undertaking the handovers, but the more I think of it, the more I think it’s possible.
I just read a post on a Family law advice FB group. The post read something along the lines of: “my ex has sent his partner/parent/au pair (or whatever) to drop-off/pick-up our child. The court order says that father does the drop-offs/pick-ups, is this a breach of the order?”.
All the answers in the FB group were along the lines of “the court order says ‘dad’ does the handovers therefore it’s a breach of the order and you should report him etc etc”.
I hadn’t ever considered this. In a normal sane practical world then a nominated responsible person should be able to conduct the handovers; however, it’s perfectly possible that a difficult co-parent will refuse to perform the handover if it’s not actually ‘dad’ that’s present.
Does anyone have any experience in this? Is it worth including “father (or a trusted person nominated by father) to drop-off at 6pm”. I would never have imagined someone could be this petty so as to insist on the names individuals undertaking the handovers, but the more I think of it, the more I think it’s possible.