My financial order has a Global Periodical Payment clause which states that I must pay £800 per month.
I now have a daughter with my new girlfriend, and we are planning on getting married in the next year or two.
Whilst trying to stick to the court order, I have relied on borrowing to fulfil the agreement which has amounted to me being financially restricted and burdened heavily with debt. Unfortunately, life has worked against me, and I have been unable to increase my earnings to what they were.
I have mentioned to her that I am earning a lot less than i was, and have stressed almost monthly that money is tight. She just gets argumentative every time I mention anything financial and threatens me with child access, and I am not a confrontational person, so the conversation doesn't go far.
I really don't want to have to sell my home and uproot my family and be further away from my son.
My question(s) are-
I now have a daughter with my new girlfriend, and we are planning on getting married in the next year or two.
Whilst trying to stick to the court order, I have relied on borrowing to fulfil the agreement which has amounted to me being financially restricted and burdened heavily with debt. Unfortunately, life has worked against me, and I have been unable to increase my earnings to what they were.
I have mentioned to her that I am earning a lot less than i was, and have stressed almost monthly that money is tight. She just gets argumentative every time I mention anything financial and threatens me with child access, and I am not a confrontational person, so the conversation doesn't go far.
I really don't want to have to sell my home and uproot my family and be further away from my son.
My question(s) are-
- Is it too late to try to get a variance to the court order?
- Does my salary drop, and new child constitute to big change?
- From my understanding, Global payments are a split between child and spousal maintenance - should I still be entitled to pay the spousal maintenance aspect of this?
- Will it work against me that I took on extra debt to continue the level of payments set out in the order?
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