Hello,
Four years ago I put a camera in the house, found out wife was hitting my children and talking to other men. Called the police, showed them the footage and they asked her to leave the house (mortgaged under my name only). She was cautioned by the police for child cruetly, she put me through the text book usual false accusations, she had full support from everyone including the childrens social worker who wrote the reports to her favour and was meeting her before our usual meetings possibly to coach her. But I was just being myself and with support from some services I paid for and my family we manged, all cases were closed and the kids have been with me full time for the past 4 years.
For the past 4 yeas she says that she wants to see the children but refuses to see them via contact centre. This is my condition due to the safty of my children, so we only do video calls three times a week.
The sitiation now is that we are divored officially, but we never sorted out the finances or anything. I have made some good money and I am about to pay about 50k into my mortgage, but my concern is should I apply for a consent order to get the finances sorted? would this open a can for me? I have since got a better job that pays me double and what if she comes back in a few years to put a claim to all the money I have made since our divorce?
Should I get a consent order or would this open a can of warms?
If she does go to court now to make a claim for finances/support, is four years relavant?
What do you guys suggest?
Four years ago I put a camera in the house, found out wife was hitting my children and talking to other men. Called the police, showed them the footage and they asked her to leave the house (mortgaged under my name only). She was cautioned by the police for child cruetly, she put me through the text book usual false accusations, she had full support from everyone including the childrens social worker who wrote the reports to her favour and was meeting her before our usual meetings possibly to coach her. But I was just being myself and with support from some services I paid for and my family we manged, all cases were closed and the kids have been with me full time for the past 4 years.
For the past 4 yeas she says that she wants to see the children but refuses to see them via contact centre. This is my condition due to the safty of my children, so we only do video calls three times a week.
The sitiation now is that we are divored officially, but we never sorted out the finances or anything. I have made some good money and I am about to pay about 50k into my mortgage, but my concern is should I apply for a consent order to get the finances sorted? would this open a can for me? I have since got a better job that pays me double and what if she comes back in a few years to put a claim to all the money I have made since our divorce?
Should I get a consent order or would this open a can of warms?
If she does go to court now to make a claim for finances/support, is four years relavant?
What do you guys suggest?