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Thanks for the detailed explanation.Hi Adam, please remember this is only my personal opinion but having been through the process, I wouldn't change the way I used legal advice and representation.
Typically it can be about 3-6 months between each hearing.
I'd definitely use a DAB for the final hearing. As for the FDR, this is all about preference and the likelihood of you settling or going to final. I always knew my hearing was going to final, my ex was asking for far too much so I knew at the FDR, regardless of what the indicative view from the judge was going to be, the ex would always try to go for more. If you think your ex may use the FDR in the attempt to settle and it's in your best interests to finalise things earlier (I was happy to drag things out, I was in no rush to get the right outcome) then consider taking a barrister.
A barrister at the FDR will help position your case correctly. One negative to me was my case was articulated as clearly as I would have hoped but this didn't really matter to me. The judge at the FDR therefore suggested a more favourable outcome to the ex at final. Whilst she was pleased with this, I knew that I didn't have the opportunity to explain my finances to the judge and because she did have a DAB, they argued and pushed their case for a far more favourable outcome in their favour. They attempted to settle outside of court based on the judges opinion but I declined.
This paid off for more, I knew the indicative view from the judge was unaffordable so I pushed it to final, got representation and a far more favourable outcome in my favour was reached. Don't get me wrong, she still took a good chunk of the cash as our earnings are hugely different but I was tens of thousands better off.
Hope that helps and makes sense.
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