Hello all
What a journey this has been. Had the DRA hearing on Monday. Interesting day. Thoughts to share:
1.Travelled by train in the morning and then received an email at 08.03am from the other side outlining more attacks to get a s25 psychological assessment on me
2. Her barristers absolute Rottweiler.
3. Wife represented with Barrister and Solicitor
4. Thought I was sole represented as LIP to be ripped apart,had my own counsel (same one throughout).
5. Other side tried to bully and intimidate my Barrister, how unreasonable and incredulous he was in their behaviour and unwillingness to have any proactive discussion, pure aggression.
6. The Judge sat on the fence too much and didn't provide enough guidance and direction, My Barrister wanted a timeline to get supervised contact and unsupervised access, overnights in place but Judge didn't budge.
7. Mum provided no guidance on movement just trying to hammer me for an assessment.
8. Mum ignored contact centre requests and would only insist contact is via ISW, her ISW (Barrister persuaded me to go with it to get contact restarted). No direct contact with the kids for over 9 weeks.
9. Cafcass was a wet lettuce and didn't even back up her own recommendations for swift progression towards unsupervised access, overnights
Outcome of the hearing (we go forward to a estimated 2 day Final Hearing - no date set):
Ruling
1. S25 assessment - dismissed.
2. Progression with supervised contact through a ISW but her brief limited to report on contact NOT assessments.
3. ISW to observe contact but has influence on how contact can progress eg towards unsupervised, re-instigating overnights back home etc (I pay half of these costs)
4. Cafcass to provide append um to her report following contact reports
Need to crack on now and see where I go from here.. Been a long hard slog.
What a journey this has been. Had the DRA hearing on Monday. Interesting day. Thoughts to share:
1.Travelled by train in the morning and then received an email at 08.03am from the other side outlining more attacks to get a s25 psychological assessment on me
2. Her barristers absolute Rottweiler.
3. Wife represented with Barrister and Solicitor
4. Thought I was sole represented as LIP to be ripped apart,had my own counsel (same one throughout).
5. Other side tried to bully and intimidate my Barrister, how unreasonable and incredulous he was in their behaviour and unwillingness to have any proactive discussion, pure aggression.
6. The Judge sat on the fence too much and didn't provide enough guidance and direction, My Barrister wanted a timeline to get supervised contact and unsupervised access, overnights in place but Judge didn't budge.
7. Mum provided no guidance on movement just trying to hammer me for an assessment.
8. Mum ignored contact centre requests and would only insist contact is via ISW, her ISW (Barrister persuaded me to go with it to get contact restarted). No direct contact with the kids for over 9 weeks.
9. Cafcass was a wet lettuce and didn't even back up her own recommendations for swift progression towards unsupervised access, overnights
Outcome of the hearing (we go forward to a estimated 2 day Final Hearing - no date set):
Ruling
1. S25 assessment - dismissed.
2. Progression with supervised contact through a ISW but her brief limited to report on contact NOT assessments.
3. ISW to observe contact but has influence on how contact can progress eg towards unsupervised, re-instigating overnights back home etc (I pay half of these costs)
4. Cafcass to provide append um to her report following contact reports
Need to crack on now and see where I go from here.. Been a long hard slog.