Hi guys,
Like i stated in my post yesterday I succeeded in convincing a Judge to allow me make an undertaking for the ex's NMO application. Ex was clearly unhappy that case was dismissed with me signing a unilateral undertaking. As you would expect he NMO application was full of bullcrap from exaggerations to blatant lies to outright fabrications of texts to suggest that I was threatening her. My undertaking stated that I wont harass or contact her or go to her house etc. I never did any of these anyway.
But I am no concerned that there's nothing stopping ex to redouble her efforts and make new allegations and fabricate new allegations and make false reports to the police as usual. Now I am considering making my own NMO application against her. She has reported me to the police uncountable times with false allegations and I have always been discharged because there is no evidence for her allegations. But I am concerned that if undeterred she will continue this act and build a wrong picture of me to the police. It only takes one policeman or judge to believe her and I might be in serious trouble.
I am wondering if any father here has taken an NMO against the ex and how it went. Was it successful. I am seriously considering doing this and want some advise. Even if I dont succeed with the NMO i might get her to also sign an undertaking and that might deter her from these false allegations and harrassment. I can also point to the NMO in the future as evidence whenever she makes another unsubstantiated allegation. To turn the gun on the hunter themselves and rock their boat. Change the narrative from them being seen as perpetual victims to perpetrators.
Any advise will be welcome. @JC83 @lunico93x @Ash @Resolute
Like i stated in my post yesterday I succeeded in convincing a Judge to allow me make an undertaking for the ex's NMO application. Ex was clearly unhappy that case was dismissed with me signing a unilateral undertaking. As you would expect he NMO application was full of bullcrap from exaggerations to blatant lies to outright fabrications of texts to suggest that I was threatening her. My undertaking stated that I wont harass or contact her or go to her house etc. I never did any of these anyway.
But I am no concerned that there's nothing stopping ex to redouble her efforts and make new allegations and fabricate new allegations and make false reports to the police as usual. Now I am considering making my own NMO application against her. She has reported me to the police uncountable times with false allegations and I have always been discharged because there is no evidence for her allegations. But I am concerned that if undeterred she will continue this act and build a wrong picture of me to the police. It only takes one policeman or judge to believe her and I might be in serious trouble.
I am wondering if any father here has taken an NMO against the ex and how it went. Was it successful. I am seriously considering doing this and want some advise. Even if I dont succeed with the NMO i might get her to also sign an undertaking and that might deter her from these false allegations and harrassment. I can also point to the NMO in the future as evidence whenever she makes another unsubstantiated allegation. To turn the gun on the hunter themselves and rock their boat. Change the narrative from them being seen as perpetual victims to perpetrators.
Any advise will be welcome. @JC83 @lunico93x @Ash @Resolute