Wasn’t really sure where to put this, but was wondering if anyone had ever dealt with an ex trying to twist a court order saying something is in the order that isn’t?
Basically when my partner recently went to court with his ex he stated in court he would like to have the children for some of the school holidays. Up to that point he was only given a week with them in the summer hols. Cafcass advised a fairer share of the holidays and his ex agreed to it, but despite this the judge ruled that there would be no changes made to the previous order other than he would now collect the children from school rather than the grandmothers house. So no extra contact in the holidays was put in the order.
Next week is half term and my partner has booked holidays throughout the year in the hope his ex would still agree to him spending time with the children in the holidays. He has been given all his holiday requests except for the days he requested off for next week as they said there are too many employees already off. My partner is still in his probation period so people already had their holidays booked before him.
My partner has explained to his ex that he’s been unable to get time off for this half term but that he has booked time off for other half terms and 2 weeks for the summer holidays and at the time of telling her he was just waiting for confirmation that he could have these days off.
His ex kicked off cause he couldn’t have them this half term and has tried telling him that it’s in the court order that he has the children in the half terms. He’s told her that it’s not in the court order and as much as he’d love to spend half terms with them he has to have holidays approved and the only change made to the order was where he was to collect the children from.
She’s demanded that he has the children for the whole 2 weeks of the Easter holidays to make up for not having them this half term, he’s got time off to spend with them at Easter but he can’t have them the full 2 weeks cause he doesn’t have enough holiday allowance.
We know it’s not in the order and she has no leg to stand on in making demands etc but has anyone else had an ex trying to state something is in the court order when it isn’t and how’s best to deal with it?
When he discussed it with her he was waiting for confirmation from his employer that he could have the dates off that he had booked. Now he’s had confirmation and so he needs to text her to let her know, but we know she will kick off cause he’s not booked the full 2 weeks of Easter off. She tries to phone him a lot to avoid him having it in text message what she’s said but we’re trying to keep everything in messages.
Basically when my partner recently went to court with his ex he stated in court he would like to have the children for some of the school holidays. Up to that point he was only given a week with them in the summer hols. Cafcass advised a fairer share of the holidays and his ex agreed to it, but despite this the judge ruled that there would be no changes made to the previous order other than he would now collect the children from school rather than the grandmothers house. So no extra contact in the holidays was put in the order.
Next week is half term and my partner has booked holidays throughout the year in the hope his ex would still agree to him spending time with the children in the holidays. He has been given all his holiday requests except for the days he requested off for next week as they said there are too many employees already off. My partner is still in his probation period so people already had their holidays booked before him.
My partner has explained to his ex that he’s been unable to get time off for this half term but that he has booked time off for other half terms and 2 weeks for the summer holidays and at the time of telling her he was just waiting for confirmation that he could have these days off.
His ex kicked off cause he couldn’t have them this half term and has tried telling him that it’s in the court order that he has the children in the half terms. He’s told her that it’s not in the court order and as much as he’d love to spend half terms with them he has to have holidays approved and the only change made to the order was where he was to collect the children from.
She’s demanded that he has the children for the whole 2 weeks of the Easter holidays to make up for not having them this half term, he’s got time off to spend with them at Easter but he can’t have them the full 2 weeks cause he doesn’t have enough holiday allowance.
We know it’s not in the order and she has no leg to stand on in making demands etc but has anyone else had an ex trying to state something is in the court order when it isn’t and how’s best to deal with it?
When he discussed it with her he was waiting for confirmation from his employer that he could have the dates off that he had booked. Now he’s had confirmation and so he needs to text her to let her know, but we know she will kick off cause he’s not booked the full 2 weeks of Easter off. She tries to phone him a lot to avoid him having it in text message what she’s said but we’re trying to keep everything in messages.